Hey ladies- I'm super new here so if this question has been asked please forgive me. I work for a VERY large company, HUGE, and am shocked they don't offer any adoption assistance. Other companies in our industry offer $5-25K in assistance. I want to put together a proposal for HR to review but don't know where to really go from here. Has anyone put one together, what was the outcome? Any input it helpful.
TTC #1 since September 2008
All tests normal
IUI #1, 1/31 50mg Clomid BFN!
IUI #2, 2/27 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel trigger BFN!
Laporoscopy March 30th- diagnosed with mild very endometriosis
IUI #3, 10/10, 2.5mg Femara BFN!
Hip Surgery 12/10 and forced TTC break
Diagnosed with gluten and dairy intolerance 12/10
June: TTC with TI and 2.5 mg Femara
IUI #4 & 5 Summer/Fall 2011 with Femara. BFN
11/11 Diagnosed Compound Heterozygous MTHFR- 7.5 mg Deplin
IVF #1 take 1- cancelled due to cyst
IVF #1 take 2- ER Aug 29, 35 retrieved ET Sept 3- 1 beautiful embryo transfered. 11 frozen embryos (AKA snow babies)
BFP Sept 11, 2012
Suffering from moderate OHSS
I watched a documentary on adoption assistance once that highlighted companies that did adoption assistance (I wish I remembered the name) and the biggest pointer they gave was simply just to ask- so kuddos to you for doing so! Sorry I'm not much help but wanted to pass along some encouragement! Let us know how it goes!
I was going to suggest the Dave Thomas Foundation info too. Kudos to you for asking, but don't be shocked if they say no. I have heard of several companies recently who have cut their adoption assistance programs due to the economy and other cut backs.
TTC #1 since September 2008
All tests normal
IUI #1, 1/31 50mg Clomid BFN!
IUI #2, 2/27 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel trigger BFN!
Laporoscopy March 30th- diagnosed with mild very endometriosis
IUI #3, 10/10, 2.5mg Femara BFN!
Hip Surgery 12/10 and forced TTC break
Diagnosed with gluten and dairy intolerance 12/10
June: TTC with TI and 2.5 mg Femara
IUI #4 & 5 Summer/Fall 2011 with Femara. BFN
11/11 Diagnosed Compound Heterozygous MTHFR- 7.5 mg Deplin
IVF #1 take 1- cancelled due to cyst
IVF #1 take 2- ER Aug 29, 35 retrieved ET Sept 3- 1 beautiful embryo transfered. 11 frozen embryos (AKA snow babies)
BFP Sept 11, 2012
Suffering from moderate OHSS
Can't believe I just ran across this post. I am new here. Our birthmom is delivering in December. We are having a few financial difficulties with tying up loose ends. We have already paid over 25,000 to the agency but still have to pay 7,000 to finalize. I simply emailed our CEO of my company and asked if he would consider adoption credit for employees wishing to adopt. Waiting to hear back and now Im nervous. It seems I cant find any adoption grants either. Any suggestions? Thank You!
Re: Approaching employer about adoption assistance?
TTC #1 since September 2008
All tests normal
IUI #1, 1/31 50mg Clomid BFN!
IUI #2, 2/27 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel trigger BFN!
Laporoscopy March 30th- diagnosed with mild very endometriosis
IUI #3, 10/10, 2.5mg Femara BFN!
Hip Surgery 12/10 and forced TTC break
Diagnosed with gluten and dairy intolerance 12/10
June: TTC with TI and 2.5 mg Femara
IUI #4 & 5 Summer/Fall 2011 with Femara. BFN
11/11 Diagnosed Compound Heterozygous MTHFR- 7.5 mg Deplin
IVF #1 take 1- cancelled due to cyst
IVF #1 take 2- ER Aug 29, 35 retrieved ET Sept 3- 1 beautiful embryo transfered. 11 frozen embryos (AKA snow babies)
BFP Sept 11, 2012
Suffering from moderate OHSS
Can't believe I just ran across this post. I am new here. Our birthmom is delivering in December. We are having a few financial difficulties with tying up loose ends. We have already paid over 25,000 to the agency but still have to pay 7,000 to finalize. I simply emailed our CEO of my company and asked if he would consider adoption credit for employees wishing to adopt. Waiting to hear back and now Im nervous. It seems I cant find any adoption grants either. Any suggestions? Thank You!