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Back from L&D

Before I get into how it went, I just want to say that the drive in was so hard.  The only time I've ever been to that hospital was to confirm my m/c.   Granted I already knew I'd had a mc (sac had passed), but it still is a bad association.  I realized this on the drive in...and spent the rest of the drive repeating to myself that he's probably fine and this can have a different outcome than the last drive there.

Turns out the little stinker is fine!  To quote the L&D nurse, "Wow, he's really nestled down in there".  Pretty sure that's why I haven't felt him much at all the last coupld days.  They hooked me up to monitors (I think it was an NST, not positive) to listen to his heartbeat and movements and I had to hit a button every time I felt him move (about 6 times during the 30 minute test...waaay more than I've felt him total for the past 2 days).  His heartrate was fine, he was moving as much as normal (just so deep I could only hear it on their monitor)...he's fine.  They did a quick u/s while I was there too.  Was pretty hard to see anything as he's getting crammed in there, but there was definitely the heartbeat as well as some hand & foot movements.  I still have to call and schedule the u/s to see how he's measuring with radiology, but I'm feeling 1,000 times better about things than I was this morning.  Like I told the L&D doc, I'd rather come in and have it turn out to be nothing than not come in and regret it for the rest of my life. 

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Re: Back from L&D

  • I'm glad all turned out well!
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  • I'm so glad everything turned out well and he was just snuggling in. 
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  • I meant to comment on your original post, but it was too late by the time I got home. I wanted to let you know that you were basically reading my mind and that I was having the exact same issue- hadn't really felt him in about 2 days and was getting worried. Last night though I got so worried that I had a Coke before bed and sat there until I felt him move so that I didn't have to go to L &D. He only moved about twice, and the Coke kept me up until 2am. BUT I felt a lot more movement from 12-2am than I had in the last two days. So I think he's just being a stinker and only being active when I'm asleep. I know that you've been unpacking/moving/being super busy lately, (same here), so I wanted to tell you I bet he just waits until you go to sleep to move.

    Sorry for the novel, but I'm so glad that L&D went well and that everything is okay. What did they mean by "he's really in there"?

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  • Glad things are going good!!
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  • I am so glad he is doing well...what a little bugger!! I am sorry for the bad memories.... I totally understand!! I was in L&D today and told them the same thing...I would never forgive myself if I should have called or gone in. I am so glad he cooperated for you today!
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  • So happy it all turned out ok :)
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    Great news!!!

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

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  • I'm happy it turned out well. :) Take care of yourself.
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    I meant to comment on your original post, but it was too late by the time I got home. I wanted to let you know that you were basically reading my mind and that I was having the exact same issue- hadn't really felt him in about 2 days and was getting worried. Last night though I got so worried that I had a Coke before bed and sat there until I felt him move so that I didn't have to go to L &D. He only moved about twice, and the Coke kept me up until 2am. BUT I felt a lot more movement from 12-2am than I had in the last two days. So I think he's just being a stinker and only being active when I'm asleep. I know that you've been unpacking/moving/being super busy lately, (same here), so I wanted to tell you I bet he just waits until you go to sleep to move.

    Sorry for the novel, but I'm so glad that L&D went well and that everything is okay. What did they mean by "he's really in there"?

    That's interesting that you, me & Ginger all have had lacking movement this week and all are due within 2 days of one another. 

    I'd already tried the sugary drinks, switching positions...you name it.  At best I'd get a little nudge out of it from him.  Not enough that I'd feel better (still kind of felt like maybe it was a sign from him that things weren't fine that his movement changed so much).

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  • I am glad everything turned out fine!
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  • I'm glad everything looks good!  ((((Hugs)))) on the memories the ride to the hospital brought back.
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
  • I am so glad that everything is going well and I think that its good to get peace of mind! ((HUGS))
    DS Born 10/05/99 DSS Born 7/11/95 BFP 05/11/10 - Missed M/C, D&C 06/23/10 BFP 8/3/2010 - Ectopic, Methotrexate 8/17/10 BFP 1/27/11- Please God let this heart beat strong. Beta1 17dpo-314 Beta2 20dpo-883 Beta3 22dpo-1861 Beta4 25dpo-5918 DS2 Born 10/07/99 "I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he shall be given over to the LORD." 1Sam1v24to28.
  • I am glad that LO is doing well!
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  • So glad it was good news!!!!
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  • So glad he is doing well and that you got another sneak peek at him. Maybe now you can start associating positive memories with your drive to that hospital.
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  • So glad your little man is doing great and everything turned out ok.  What a relief!

     

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  • Glad everything was ok!!!  these LO's like to scare us sometimes. 
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    So glad he is doing well and that you got another sneak peek at him. Maybe now you can start associating positive memories with your drive to that hospital.
    That's what I'm hoping.  Its the hospital we'll deliver at, so I'm trying to look at today as the first of several good associations with that hospital.  It did stir up lots of unexpected memories this morning though, that whole "this can't be happening" feeling that came with the m/c and all that.

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  • I am so glad that he looks great!
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  • I am thrilled to hear your LO is doing good and your experience was a pleasant one.
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  • Glad you went in and you are feeling better about LO!!! Happy everything is okay and he is just snug:)
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  • I'm glad it went so well and he's doing just fine.
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    Oh thank goodness!!!  I'm so glad he's just snuggled deep, but geez, maybe you should have a heart to heart with him and ask him not to scare the stuffins out of his mom.  :)

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  • imagejertie:
    Oh thank goodness!!!  I'm so glad he's just snuggled deep, but geez, maybe you should have a heart to heart with him and ask him not to scare the stuffins out of his mom.  :)
    I'm half tempted to do a handstand and let gravity get the little bugger outta the nook he's in.

    I just downed a glass of OJ.  I don't feel a thing from the kid.  I know from the way he reacted to the apple juice they had me drink that he's wiggling though.  Little stinker.  He can hang out in there if he wants...just give me a good wallop now and then and we'll call it good.

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  • So glad everything was fine!
    TTC since January 2010
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  • I'm glad he was doing well!
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    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
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  • I am glad everything is OK
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  • What a relief!!! ((HUGS))
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  • SO glad to hear this!! What a relief. I hope this gives you some good memories to attach to that hospital from now on, that must have been very upsetting to come in there.
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  • Great news, glad everything is OK! Sorry your had all of those bad memories come rushing back during the drive to the hospital (((hugs))).
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  • You are exactly right better safe then sorry. I am so glad everything is o.k. and LO is just snuggled up inside of you.
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  • I'm glad everything is looking good!
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  • Great news!  I was on that machine a few weeks back in my dr.'s office and the baby kicked more than.  I think the relaxing knowing all is okay helps.
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