Advanced TTGP check in This is an Advanced TTGP group those who have been trying 6 months + and have charted enough to understand their cycles. I just ask that everyone please use good judgment when asking to join...
Question of the week: How involved is your SO in the TTC process?
Also, Please let us know if you need T&P or hugs. That is what we are here for!
If you have started a new cycle, post your updated info in the format it appears in our list.
If you would like to be added to the list, please PM me (Mrs.Slick) with your info in the following format: Screenname:TTC #,Cycle #, months trying #, Current Dx or treatment, Plan for next cycle? Please also send the link for your chart
If I missed any BFP?s please let me know!: Congrats to latest ATTGP grads Salt78, Kellinc1, and Sheveen2009!
**Welcome to our new members bostonbluejay, mrssqueegy.
*** Thoughts and prayers and lots of hugs to siple1am and Kathy***
Members of ATTGP: Mod: Mrs.Slick: TTC #1,Cycle #8, months trying #18, PCOS-taking metformin,septate uterus,MFI. Plan for next cycle? Follistim+Ovidrel+IUI.
Asst mod:jchanth: TTC #1,Cycle #6, months trying #6, No Dx or treatment yet.. Bloodwork on CD21 to check progesterone levels, Plan for next cycle: Bloodwork on CD3 and CD21 again and possibly starting Clomid chart
2WWers: Blackbird01:TTC #2,Cycle #12, months trying #13, Dx: PCOS. Building up to 1500 mg Metformin daily, plus Omega 3 supplements. CD 3 b/w, HSG and SA for DH to come.Chart.
Lynnyrd80; TTC #1, Cycle 11, Month 11, no DX. Dr's appt July 14.chart
Bubs101:TTC #1,Cycle #15, months trying #13, Current Dx or treatment- RE says that my ovaries look a little sub-par for someone my age. They are still producing eggs, but we're not sure what the quality is. 150mg Clomid this cycle. Plan for next cycle? Hopefully do another round of 150mg Clomid. We are going on vacation next month, so I may have to go without meds if I'm out of town. Depends what day mid cycle monitoring would fall. chart
SParkman80 TTC#1 cycle #9/ month #9. (I'm in the 2ww though) Current DX- me- low progesterone, DH- had low sperm count cycles 1-6 due to low t. He is on Novarel hcg shots twice/week and his sperm count has improved to the low side of normal. Next cycle, I am going unmedicated. T&P's for DH please. He had a gamma knife radiation procedure to a pituitary tumor and we won't find out results for 4 months. chart
mrssqueegy: TTC #1, Cycle #5, months trying #7, Current Dx or treatment: none yet, long and irregular cycles, Plan for next cycle? Seeing doctor for preliminary workup chart
Squishy622: TTC #1 Cycle 8, month 8. Current dx/tx: n/a. Plan for next cycle: acupuncture, dietary changes (per Chinese medicine), trying out Preseed for nonexistent EWCM. chart
MySweetBaboo:TTC #2,Cycle #23, months trying 23, Incomplete m/c 6.10, Possible LPD & Homonal Imbalance, DH's SA came back great, 3 Medicated Cycles: Clomid/ Estradiol/ Progesterone=BFN, but longer LP and NO SPOTTING!!!!! First RE Appt. 6/23. Hsg in July -IUI w/ injectibles/TI w/injectibles or acupuncture in August chart
mdiblasi10:TTC #: 1, cycle 14, month 15, Current Dx or treatment: Unexplained IFPlan for next cycle? Clomid + IUIchart
Salt78 :TTC #1,Cycle #4, Month #7, Current DX: None yet (unexplained long/irregular cycles...thyroid bw okay on 6.7.11), Starting acupuncture again next cycle, and seeing a new doctor chart
Punkymama:Current Dx: Moderate, stage 2 Endo & Low Progesterone. We have a couple of month to try on our own before we will do another round of IUI w/ injectables. My charting break is over.chart
Waiting to O?ers: branmuffin2112: TTC #1, Cycle 3, month 8, Current DX-PCOS/Anovulation. Plan for next cycle-Acupuncture for a few months then visit RE if no success with acupuncturechart
Fyrefry5: TTC #1,Cycle #13, month #12. No Dx, regular ovulatory cycles. SA "really good"!! Will be getting 7DPO b/w next week, and a HSG next cyclechart
tigerhearted: TTC # 1, Cycle #13, months trying # 11, Current Dx or treatment, Hubby had his SA on Friday, we're just waiting on the results now. Plan for next cycle? We may take a few cycles off TTC if this is not our cycle. Hubby's illness has taken a big toll on us and we need to some time to relax and recuperate. Hopefully his SA will provide a dx for prostatitis, otherwise we are back to square one again. chart
mepclu:TTC #1,Cycle #7, months trying #7, Current Dx or treatment: no DX but taking b complex for short LP, Plan for next cycle? Nothing at this point.chart
AndBabyWouldMake5: TTC #1, Cycle #7, Months Trying 7, No DX at this time, Dr. added B6 and Calcium to the supplement list, SA, HSG and Clomid scheduled for January 2011, My personal plan is to borrow baby dust from all the pregnant women I work with! chart
Dottie04: TTC#1, Cycle#9, Months Trying 9, No Dx, same as usual: charting, checking CM, OPKs, Preseed chart
emmb52408: Cycle # 8, months trying # 8, Current Dx or treatment: DH went for SA and we should hear results by the end of the week, Plan for next cycle: Continuing acupuncture, on a more regular basis chart
ccam TTC #1 / Cycle # / Months #13; Current DX or treatment: unexplained infertility; Plan for next cycle? We will be moving onto IUI with Clomid if we make it to cycle #14. chart
melissa721 TTC # 1 Cycle # 8 (with 3-4 months off due to pregnancy and subsequent m/c) .. Months trying - 11 months since we started trying with a pregnancy and m/c in the middle .. Current Dx or treatment - none, no known issues right now .. Plan for next cycle? - This current cycle: more sex hopefully since MH being away from work has gotten in the way the last 2 cycles chart
Michaela080: TTC#1, Cycle #10, BFP 3/26/22, ectopic twins found 4/18/11, MTX shot #1 4/18/11, MTX shot #2 4/25/11. HCG at zero 6/3/11. HSG 6/29/11: left tube completely blocked (ectopic side), right tube fine, chances to have a normal pregnancy still good! We are back to TTCing. .chart
Leathersmel: TTC #1 since October 09. Cycle 20. BFP 5-19-11. M/C 5-23-11 @ 4w4d. TTA this cycle. Baseline blood work scheduled at the start of next cycle.chart
Limpetfan: TTC # 1,Cycle # 13, months trying # 14, Current Dx or treatment: PCOS & retroverted uterus. Plan for next cycle? IUI #2 with Clomid and Ovidrel chart
KariannM23: TTC#2 - Cycle # 10 (charting 10 months - 6 cycles) - 14 months trying - Dx with PCOS in April/May- 7dpo progesterone bloodwork normal (8.44) - June/July #2 cycle with medication chart
bostonbluejay TTC # 1,Cycle # 8, months trying 9, Current Dx or treatment, endo, recurring ovarian endometriomas. Plan for next cycle? This cycle we are TTA due to miscarriage. chart
Bluenoser4ever: TTC# 1,Cycle #11, TTC since May 2010, No DX, BFP: 12/12/10 MM/C & D&C 01/21/11, New plans- No Pom juice and green tea again chart
emu0013: TTC# 1 Cycle # 12 months trying # officially 12Current Dx or treatment: on to round 3 of 25 MG of clomid.chart If no success this cycle moving to Femera. chart
bulldogmom4,TTC # 1,Cycle # 11, months trying # 11, Current Dx or treatment: first appt 07/19, Plan for next cycle? pre-seed internally chart
Rvnsgrl81: TTC #1, Cycle #10, 11 months trying, Current Dx or Treatment DH?s SA normal I am waiting to be referred to the RE if I am not KU by September., Plan for next cycle - according to my OBGYN DH and I should have sex EOD from the time my period ends until it begins again and not PIAC for OPK's, etc. We are going to try EOD leading up to and after O, but will still probably do ED around O and I don't know if I can stay away from PIAC. chart
btaylor19: TTC #1, Cycle #13, Month #14, PCOS, low motility, low grade. ON bcps in preparation for July inject/IUI. chart
mcgeeva: TTC #1, Cycle # 6, Months Trying #9, started 5/24/Last Cycle 40 days - Ended Naturally/DX: PCOS/RX: Metformin, Clomid , Gonal F, Ovidrel, Prometrium (Taken off Metforming this month & starting Timed Intercourse with SG chart
sheveen2009:TTC #1,Cycle #7, months trying #7, Current Dx or treatment- DH's SA showed good count but low motility. No other testing has been done. Plan for next cycle-Same ole' charting, opks, and green tea. chart
lynnyloo1 TTC #1, Cycle 11, Month 11, no DX. Dr's appt July 14chart
txhillcountrywife:TTC #1,Cycle #17, months trying #22, since July 2009 Current Dx or treatment:Saw RE finally on May 26th and Dx w/ PCOS, DH took SA, I had a HSG done, bloodwork, clomid resistance test, glucose test and monitoring. Follow-up with all results June 15th Plan for next cycle? To be discussed at June 15th appointment. chart
moosegal TTC # 1 #8, month #8. Due to existing autoimmune issues, I started testing recently. CD3 bloodwork & HSG were both normal. DH's SA is great. Not surprisingly, I tested positive for elevated thyroid antibodies, which indicates an autoimmune attack on my thyroid. We regroup with the RE on May 18. And I may be taking a very long charting break just to help clear my head.chart
SaucyRedhead: TTC #1, Cycle #14, Months trying = 12, Began seeing an RE this cycle. HSG and Postcoital test scheduled for later this week! chart
reinstone: Cycle #10, 8 months trying, no dx; CD3 b/w normal. Plan for next cycle? SA chart
JSRICH:TTC #1, Cycle #14, months trying #14, Current Dx or treatment, Plan for next cycle?DX: PCOS, Retroverted Uterus and Slight MFI. Plan? yesterday was CD1, (which i had an AMAZING LP last cycle right out of the blue!) So Im going to start my Clomid tomorrow. im EXTREMELY nervous. chart<span style="font-size:8pt;font-family:Arial;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:norma
My baseline is tomorrow!! *dances around the post*
QOTW - My husband is extremely involved. When we first started charting he had the link to my chart so he could stalk it as much as I do. He would ask every morning what my temp was, and what does it mean. When we started working with the RE he went into full on research mode. He knows all the treatment options available, and has questioned the RE a few times on why we aren't doing certain things. He is a motivated man.
Hi Mrs. Slick I am in the 2ww, about to start cycle 15. My update:
mdiblasi10:TTC #: 1, cycle 14, month 15, Current Dx or treatment: Unexplained IF. Plan for next cycle? Clomid + IUI chart
QOTW: My husband is very involved. He always has been. He went to the first RE appointment with me and asked lots of questions. He loves to be informed on all of our options. He keeps me sane because he is never worried and is always hopeful
I was considering taking a temping break since we're TTA this cycle, but I do want to know if I end up ovulating and am afraid the one cycle I would decide not to temp would end up being all wonky. I am definitely passing on the OPK's this cycle though.
QOTW - My husband is pretty involved. He looks at my chart when I have it pulled up and says things like, "Hey, your temperature went up! That's good, right?" He is also really good about calming me down when I'm upset or reasoning with me when I'm considering POAS when I shouldn't. He's a keeper.
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Dh is pretty good with keeping up with the lingo and charting. He asks how my temps are and even reminds me to take my folic acid everyday. He is very over protective of me during my 2WW. Overall, I am vey pleased with how he has handled it this far.
TTC#2 - Cycle # 10 (charting 10 months - 6 cycles) - 14 months trying - Dx with PCOS in April/May- 7dpo progesterone bloodwork normal (8.44) - June/July #2 cycle with medication chart
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QOTW: My DH has been getting more & more involved each cycle. He's been asking questions and learning about all the charting, etc. It's nice to have him involved.
TTC#1 Since May 2010
DX: Un-explained
4 Cycles: Clomid+trigger+TI=BFNs
3 Cycles: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFNs
May - December 2012 Trying on our own
Hoping for IVF#1 January 2013
QOTW: DH is involved as much as he wants to be. I let him decide how much that is, he comes to 99% of all my RE appointments. He wanted to TTC before I was ready and he tries to be there as much as he can.
Tons of love and hugs to Ricola & Baby Alex <br>
MySweetBaboo, IRL friend, always rooting for Baboo #2, love ya girl!<3 <br>
7.7.11 BFP | 3.19.12 EDD | 3.14.12 Baby Girl's BDay | Purse Blog |
TTC # 1,Cycle # 13, months trying # 14, Current Dx or treatment: PCOS & retroverted uterus. Plan for next cycle? IUI #2 with Clomid and Ovidrel chart
My DH is very involved in TTC now that we're doing IUIs. He goes to every.single.appointment with me -- even when it's just post-ovulation blood work at 7am. He is awesome
The Table Has Shoes (and Other Ambiguities)
Me = lean PCOS;DH = poor morphology (3%)
3 IUI/TI cycles = BFN
IVF #1 with ICSI: antagonist protocol = BFFN
IVF #2 with ICSI : Lupron downregulation = BFFN...FML
IVF #3 with ICSI and AH (Antagonist) = IT'S A BOY!!!!
Please update I am on cycle #10, 11 months trying. DH had his SA all normal! Thank you!
QOTD: My DH is moderately involved. Really depends where I am in my cycle, etc. Sometimes he asks a lot of questions others he doesn't. If I don't discuss it he doesn't mention anything about charting, OPK's etc. He did call his primary care dr. and got the referral and scheduled his SA all on his own. If we get to the point of the RE I am probably going to be going for everything alone since his boss really sucks and won't let him off to go to settlement on the new house (and he does mortgages) let alone my appointments. Guess it may be time to let him know my mom knows we are TTC so she can go with me if needed.
Edit: Forgot QOTD
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MySweetBabooTTC #2,Cycle #23, months trying 23, Incomplete m/c 6.10, Possible LPD & Homonal Imbalance, DH's SA came back great, 3 Medicated Cycles: Clomid/ Estradiol/ Progesterone=BFN, but longer LP and NO SPOTTING!!!!! First RE Appt. 6/23. Hsg in July -IUI w/ injectibles/TI w/injectibles or acupuncture in August chart
QOTW: He is very involved. He wants to know everything and fertile week we plan in advanced so he knows he needs to be on call.
And no more TTA! Here goes our first cycle TTC post m/c! A little nervous!
Married: 10/17/09
TTC since 10/09
DH's SA-Normal
HSG-All clear!!
BFP 5-19-11...Beta#1-13 Beta#2- 9 (m/c 05/23/11 @4w4d)
Nov '11-Round one of 50mg Clomid=BFP!!!12-8-11
Beta#1 12.13.11-160! Beta #2 12.21.11- 5100!!!
Hunter Austin-Born August 12, 2012 7lb 12oz 20in long
Congrats to my BFPB mrsbaker1128! Gavin Thomas and Landon David arrived on 6/27/11!!
**Good luck to all of my loves as well!**
Hi ladies! I just had my HSG, you can see my detailed results on the post I just made. Mrs. Slick, can you please move me to waiting to O, and here is my update:
Michaela080: TTC#1, Cycle #10, BFP 3/26/22, ectopic twins found 4/18/11, MTX shot #1 4/18/11, MTX shot #2 4/25/11. HCG at zero 6/3/11. HSG 6/29/11: left tube completely blocked (ectopic side), right tube fine, chances to have a normal pregnancy still good! We are back to TTCing.chart
QotW: DH is supportive of me charting and bumping, but he kinda stays out of that whole thing. He is open to me telling him when my window is, mainly because he has a lower sex drive due to anxiety meds, so we need to make the most of our opportunities.
Together since 5/08 ~ Married 6/19/10 ~ TTC #1 since 8/10 BFP#1 3/26/11 ~ EDD 12/2/11 ~ Ectopic Twins left tube 7w3d BFP#2 11/2/11 ~ EDD 7/14/12 ~ Robert Edgar born 7/18/12 BFP#3 9/28/13 ~ EDD 5/20/14 ~ Benjamin Clarence born 5/15/14
And no more TTA! Here goes our first cycle TTC post m/c! A little nervous!
Yay, good luck!
QOTW: He understands the basics, and generally knows where I am in my cycle each month, and goes with me to dr. appts. when I ask. But I wouldn't say he's super-involved, sounds like he's a little less involved than some of you ladies. I suspect that might change after we start seeing doctors more, though.
Btay GOOD LUCK with your baseline!!!!! Keep us posted!
QOTW: Mine is not as involved as I would like. It's complicated but he's of the mind that it'll happen when it's supposed to and doesn't feel the emotional ups and downs at all. We've had a lot of conversations about charting and he just doesn't think it's the be-all and end-all of maximizing chances for conception. I know that part of this is a guise designed to mitigate my anxiety, but I wish he'd be a little more sympathetic about it. If we ever move to treatments, I'm sure things would change at that point.
I'm sort of ashamed to admit all of this; I haven't really shared all of this with anyone. Luckily I pretty much have no other complaints about him and this in no way effects how amazing I think he is.
My husband is very involved. He is always asking me questions and researching after we meet with our RE. I'm very lucky that he cares so much to learn about everything.
MFI, Lap on 7/21/11 - Stage III/IV Endo and Polyps removed by D&C IVF #1 with ICSI - ER 1/20 (16R, 12M, 10F), ET 1/23 (1-10 cell and 1-8cell transferred), BFP on 1/31 Beta #1 on 2/3 = 68, Beta #2 on 2/6 = 261 EDD 10/12/12
Baby girl born 9/22/12
FET #1 - 9/16/13 - BFN
IVF #2 - ER 11/11/13 (24R, 18M, 16F), ET 11/16 (2 Grade A blasts)
TTC # 1 Cycle # 8 (with 3-4 months off due to pregnancy and subsequent m/c) .. Months trying - 11 months since we started trying with a pregnancy and m/c in the middle .. Current Dx or treatment - none, no known issues right now .. Plan for next cycle? - This current cycle: more sex hopefully since MH being away from work has gotten in the way the last 2 cycles chart
QOTD: MH is moderately involved. He asks about my temps or if I tested but not overly involved. He is supportive when I get all emo though.
bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks
bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks
bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks
bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p
bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks
bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks
I also updated everyone else (moved to 2ww or waiting to O) if you have a chart.
Let me know if I need to make any changes. And GRADS, share your wonderful news with us! I keep finding y'all when I move people from 2ww to waiting to O. I love seeing our grads list grow every week!
Sorry, I'm late to the party this week! Can I be updated? On to the 2ww of Cycle 9. Also, thank you for doing this, Mrs.Slick! That seems like a lot of work.
QOTW: MH is not that involved. He is getting a little more involved as time goes on and it doesn't "just happen" like he expected. He's a lot like YH, Squish. He thinks it will happen when it is supposed to happen. Which can be hard when I'm super sad that it didn't and he's all zen-like about it. The last couple of cycles he's asked about my temp during the 2ww, though. And he likes to joke about me peeing on sticks...
Re: ATTGP
My baseline is tomorrow!! *dances around the post*
QOTW - My husband is extremely involved. When we first started charting he had the link to my chart so he could stalk it as much as I do. He would ask every morning what my temp was, and what does it mean. When we started working with the RE he went into full on research mode. He knows all the treatment options available, and has questioned the RE a few times on why we aren't doing certain things. He is a motivated man.
TTC since 2010
lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs
FET currently on hold
Hi Mrs. Slick
I am in the 2ww, about to start cycle 15. My update:
mdiblasi10:TTC #: 1, cycle 14, month 15, Current Dx or treatment: Unexplained IF. Plan for next cycle? Clomid + IUI chart
QOTW: My husband is very involved. He always has been. He went to the first RE appointment with me and asked lots of questions. He loves to be informed on all of our options. He keeps me sane because he is never worried and is always hopeful
TTC #2
I was considering taking a temping break since we're TTA this cycle, but I do want to know if I end up ovulating and am afraid the one cycle I would decide not to temp would end up being all wonky. I am definitely passing on the OPK's this cycle though.
QOTW - My husband is pretty involved. He looks at my chart when I have it pulled up and says things like, "Hey, your temperature went up! That's good, right?" He is also really good about calming me down when I'm upset or reasoning with me when I'm considering POAS when I shouldn't. He's a keeper.
Dh is pretty good with keeping up with the lingo and charting. He asks how my temps are and even reminds me to take my folic acid everyday. He is very over protective of me during my 2WW. Overall, I am vey pleased with how he has handled it this far.
TTC#2 - Cycle # 10 (charting 10 months - 6 cycles) - 14 months trying - Dx with PCOS in April/May- 7dpo progesterone bloodwork normal (8.44) - June/July #2 cycle with medication chart
No real update, just started the 2ww.
QOTW: DH is involved as much as he wants to be. I let him decide how much that is, he comes to 99% of all my RE appointments. He wanted to TTC before I was ready and he tries to be there as much as he can.
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Could you please update my info?
TTC # 1,Cycle # 13, months trying # 14, Current Dx or treatment: PCOS &
retroverted uterus. Plan for next cycle? IUI #2 with Clomid and Ovidrel
chart
My DH is very involved in TTC now that we're doing IUIs. He goes to every.single.appointment with me -- even when it's just post-ovulation blood work at 7am. He is awesome
Me = lean PCOS;DH = poor morphology (3%)
3 IUI/TI cycles = BFN
IVF #1 with ICSI: antagonist protocol = BFFN
IVF #2 with ICSI : Lupron downregulation = BFFN...FML
IVF #3 with ICSI and AH (Antagonist) = IT'S A BOY!!!!
Please update I am on cycle #10, 11 months trying. DH had his SA all normal! Thank you!
QOTD: My DH is moderately involved. Really depends where I am in my cycle, etc. Sometimes he asks a lot of questions others he doesn't. If I don't discuss it he doesn't mention anything about charting, OPK's etc. He did call his primary care dr. and got the referral and scheduled his SA all on his own. If we get to the point of the RE I am probably going to be going for everything alone since his boss really sucks and won't let him off to go to settlement on the new house (and he does mortgages) let alone my appointments. Guess it may be time to let him know my mom knows we are TTC so she can go with me if needed.
Edit: Forgot QOTD
I can be moved to the 2ww!
Updated Info:
MySweetBabooTTC #2,Cycle #23, months trying 23, Incomplete m/c 6.10, Possible LPD & Homonal Imbalance, DH's SA came back great, 3 Medicated Cycles: Clomid/ Estradiol/ Progesterone=BFN, but longer LP and NO SPOTTING!!!!! First RE Appt. 6/23. Hsg in July -IUI w/ injectibles/TI w/injectibles or acupuncture in August chart
QOTW: He is very involved. He wants to know everything and fertile week we plan in advanced so he knows he needs to be on call.
Cycle #20
And no more TTA! Here goes our first cycle TTC post m/c! A little nervous!
TTC since 10/09
DH's SA-Normal
HSG-All clear!!
BFP 5-19-11...Beta#1-13 Beta#2- 9 (m/c 05/23/11 @4w4d)
Nov '11-Round one of 50mg Clomid=BFP!!!12-8-11
Beta#1 12.13.11-160! Beta #2 12.21.11- 5100!!!
Hunter Austin-Born August 12, 2012 7lb 12oz 20in long
**Good luck to all of my loves as well!**
Hi ladies! I just had my HSG, you can see my detailed results on the post I just made. Mrs. Slick, can you please move me to waiting to O, and here is my update:
Michaela080: TTC#1, Cycle #10, BFP 3/26/22, ectopic twins found 4/18/11, MTX shot #1 4/18/11,
MTX shot #2 4/25/11. HCG at zero 6/3/11. HSG 6/29/11: left tube completely blocked (ectopic side), right tube fine, chances to have a normal pregnancy still good! We are back to TTCing.chart
QotW: DH is supportive of me charting and bumping, but he kinda stays out of that whole thing. He is open to me telling him when my window is, mainly because he has a lower sex drive due to anxiety meds, so we need to make the most of our opportunities.
Together since 5/08 ~ Married 6/19/10 ~ TTC #1 since 8/10
BFP#1 3/26/11 ~ EDD 12/2/11 ~ Ectopic Twins left tube 7w3d
BFP#2 11/2/11 ~ EDD 7/14/12 ~ Robert Edgar born 7/18/12
BFP#3 9/28/13 ~ EDD 5/20/14 ~ Benjamin Clarence born 5/15/14
Yay, good luck!
QOTW: He understands the basics, and generally knows where I am in my cycle each month, and goes with me to dr. appts. when I ask. But I wouldn't say he's super-involved, sounds like he's a little less involved than some of you ladies. I suspect that might change after we start seeing doctors more, though.
Hey Slicker! Please move me to 2WW.
Btay GOOD LUCK with your baseline!!!!! Keep us posted!
QOTW: Mine is not as involved as I would like. It's complicated but he's of the mind that it'll happen when it's supposed to and doesn't feel the emotional ups and downs at all. We've had a lot of conversations about charting and he just doesn't think it's the be-all and end-all of maximizing chances for conception. I know that part of this is a guise designed to mitigate my anxiety, but I wish he'd be a little more sympathetic about it. If we ever move to treatments, I'm sure things would change at that point.
I'm sort of ashamed to admit all of this; I haven't really shared all of this with anyone. Luckily I pretty much have no other complaints about him and this in no way effects how amazing I think he is.
End novel.
Hi ladies! No update for me.
My husband is very involved. He is always asking me questions and researching after we meet with our RE. I'm very lucky that he cares so much to learn about everything.
IVF #1 with ICSI - ER 1/20 (16R, 12M, 10F), ET 1/23 (1-10 cell and 1-8cell transferred), BFP on 1/31 Beta #1 on 2/3 = 68, Beta #2 on 2/6 = 261 EDD 10/12/12
UPDATE MY INFO PLEASE! Here it is:
TTC # 1 Cycle # 8 (with 3-4 months off due to pregnancy and subsequent m/c) .. Months trying - 11 months since we started trying with a pregnancy and m/c in the middle .. Current Dx or treatment - none, no known issues right now .. Plan for next cycle? - This current cycle: more sex hopefully since MH being away from work has gotten in the way the last 2 cycles chart
QOTD: MH is moderately involved. He asks about my temps or if I tested but not overly involved. He is supportive when I get all emo though.
bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks
bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks
bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks
bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p
bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks
bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks
Ok, y'all are updated!
I also updated everyone else (moved to 2ww or waiting to O) if you have a chart.
Let me know if I need to make any changes. And GRADS, share your wonderful news with us! I keep finding y'all when I move people from 2ww to waiting to O. I love seeing our grads list grow every week!
Sorry, I'm late to the party this week! Can I be updated? On to the 2ww of Cycle 9. Also, thank you for doing this, Mrs.Slick! That seems like a lot of work.
QOTW: MH is not that involved. He is getting a little more involved as time goes on and it doesn't "just happen" like he expected. He's a lot like YH, Squish. He thinks it will happen when it is supposed to happen. Which can be hard when I'm super sad that it didn't and he's all zen-like about it. The last couple of cycles he's asked about my temp during the 2ww, though. And he likes to joke about me peeing on sticks...