I should never, ever look elsewhere on the Bump. Ever.
So this is what I don't understand... if you are dealing with IF, you are not using protection and therefore would be surprised if you became pregnant. (Whoo-hoo!)
But for fertiles, where the heck does the "surprise" part come in? Seriously, do you not know how it happens? Were you drunk? Are you feigning stupidity? I just don't get it, yet I hear this (and read this) all too often. It has a tendancy to rub this 2IFer the wrong way... If you are fertile, and you have unprotected sex, there's a good chance a BFP is coming your way in the next few months. That's the way it's supposed to work - it shouldn't be a surprise... right?
(Disclaimer: I had my own surprise, as DD came without treatment, after I had been told I'd never get KU on my own. Seriously hoping for another "surprise" asap.)