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Mixed emotions

LCassLCass member
in October 2011 Moms

Last summer I had a miscarriage just before 8 weeks while we were out of town visiting friends.  The miscarriage happened on a Monday, was confirmed at the hospital on Tuesday.  Wednesday morning we woke up to my dad calling to tell us that my aunt's father had died and the funeral was the next day, so we had to pack up and head home for the funeral.  His passing away is now all tied up with the miscarriage in my mind.

Well, here I am nearly a year later, enjoying a healthy pregnancy that everyone's all excited about.  The unveiling of my aunt's father's tombstone is today and it's bringing the miscarriage to the front of my mind again.  I know it's going to make the  ceremony an emotional time for me.  Nobody who will be there besides my parents and DH even knows about the miscarriage, and they just don't get it.

Thanks for reading, ladies.  I just needed to get that out before I go and face today.

BFP #1: July 12, 2010 Natural M/C: July 26, 2010

BFP #2: January 30 ,2011 Born: September 29, 2011

BFP #3: January 5, 2013 Born: August 25, 2013


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Re: Mixed emotions

  • 10kris10kris member
    I'm so sorry for our losses. Try to stay strong and think of LO on its way.  I know its very difficult.
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  • KozieKimKozieKim member
    It will be a day of morning for you now for 2 ppl. I had a 14week missed miscarrage 3 mths b4 this preg and I will never forget the day we couldnt find a heartbeat. Sending T&P for you and I hope you find all the strength you need to get through the day.
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  • blu-eyedwifeblu-eyedwife member
    It's weird how the sense of loss can just resurface unexpectedly - but it sure does.  Hope today wasn't too difficult for you.
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  • LCassLCass member
    Thanks for the support, ladies.  Made it through the service and the lunch afterward.

    BFP #1: July 12, 2010 Natural M/C: July 26, 2010

    BFP #2: January 30 ,2011 Born: September 29, 2011

    BFP #3: January 5, 2013 Born: August 25, 2013


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