Sex.

TiffanyTheMom · June 2011

1. Are you having it? If so, is it as often as it was pre-baby?

2. Is it as passionate as it was before, is it better or less? Does your DH dig your new, curvier, more womanly shape? (Nice way to say it, huh?)

3. Are you preventing a sibling for your LO, or are you at the point right now where you are okay with getting KU again?

4. Do you feel sexy? Does your DH make you feel desired even if you don't feel like a catch?

TiffanyTheMom · June 2011

1. Are you having it? If so, is it as often as it was pre-baby? Yes. Not as often, but it's quality that matters, not quantity, right?

2. Is it as passionate as it was before, is it better or less? Does your DH dig your new, curvier, more womanly shape? (Nice way to say it, huh?) Yes and yes. Maybe it is better than it was because it does happen less often. And yes, he does appreciate the curves even though I don't. lol

3. Are you preventing a sibling for your LO, or are you at the point right now where you are okay with getting KU again? Totally preventing. DH's big V was 2wks ago, and he wears a rain jacket every time we do it.

4. Do you feel sexy? Does your DH make you feel desired even if you don't feel like a catch? I don't necessarily feel sexy, but he knows how to make me feel like I'm the hottest woman in the room.

sbuxsweetie · June 2011

1. We are having sex, but not as often as we did before DS. 2. It's about the same.. sometimes better, but it doesn't last as long. lol! As far as my new "figure" goes, DH seems indifferent. He doesn't really talk about it. 3. I am on the pill. 4. I hate my body right now. DH always begs for sex, so I guess I should feel desired.. but usually I just think "ugh.. We just did it like a week ago!"

Sorry for the weird formatting, I'm bumping on my iPhone.

vflipo · June 2011

1. Are you having it? If so, is it as often as it was pre-baby? Sometimes. It's just about the same as before TTC (we hardly had sex), but we did it like rabbits when we were able to TTC after each m/c.

2. Is it as passionate as it was before, is it better or less? Does your DH dig your new, curvier, more womanly shape? (Nice way to say it, huh?) I think it might be more. And, I don't really have a new, curvier, more womanly shape.

3. Are you preventing a sibling for your LO, or are you at the point right now where you are okay with getting KU again? I would be ok with it, but we're definitely not actively trying. However, our only form of BC is pull and pray.

4. Do you feel sexy? Does your DH make you feel desired even if you don't feel like a catch? Not at all. And, sometimes DH is good at making me feel desired. But usually he just wants to dive right in (no pun intended). I have to remind him that I can't just instantly be in the mood, and foreplay is his friend.

kbugcmommy · June 2011

1. Are you having it? If so, is it as often as it was pre-baby? Yes. Pre-baby as in TTC then yes, during pregnancy it's more. We had sex once after the first month of pregnancy because of a scare at the beginning (I was told no sex for 2 weeks) and then I just couldn't shake the scared feeling after that.

2. Is it as passionate as it was before, is it better or less? Does your DH dig your new, curvier, more womanly shape? (Nice way to say it, huh?) I think it's better, but more "challenging" read painful. As for my shape he still tells me I'm hot and I tell him he's crazy!

3. Are you preventing a sibling for your LO, or are you at the point right now where you are okay with getting KU again? I definitely don't want another LO right now, in fact I stress about it. But we are only using a raincoat, so I guess it could happen sooner than I like. I just am afraid of BC because I have had so many problems in the past.

4. Do you feel sexy? Does your DH make you feel desired even if you don't feel like a catch? No, I feel gross. Yes, DH does a great job at making me feel desired.

GoMommy · June 2011

1. Are you having it? If so, is it as often as it was pre-baby? Yes, we are having it. I'd say prolly about the same.. maybe a little bit less.

2. Is it as passionate as it was before, is it better or less? Does your DH dig your new, curvier, more womanly shape? (Nice way to say it, huh?) No, not really. and No, he doesn't dig my new "curves" He would never say it, but I know he doesn't like it...

3. Are you preventing a sibling for your LO, or are you at the point right now where you are okay with getting KU again? Oh yea, we aer preventing a sibling. No, right now I don't have maternity on our insurance, so it won't be a good thing right now if I got KU.

4. Do you feel sexy? Does your DH make you feel desired even if you don't feel like a catch? Not at all.. I hate my body so much just about everything about it.... DH doesn't really try, but I feel like i havn't had the time to try to make myself look good. He knows how much I hate how I look right now-so his big solution is to encourage me to diet and work out.. Which really makes it harder.. dumb boy.

Aviee · June 2011

TiffanyTheMom:
1. Are you having it? Yes If so, is it as often as it was pre-baby? No, it still hurts way too much!
2. Is it as passionate as it was before, is it better or less? Less on my part. I have no energy. But we did manage to be whimsical the other day, with was so much better than the 'stay awake long enough to put H to sleep' sex. Does your DH dig your new, curvier, more womanly shape? (Nice way to say it, huh?) He might. He does tap me on my butt a lot more lol
3. Are you preventing a sibling for your LO, or are you at the point right now where you are okay with getting KU again? Definitely preventing a sibling!
4. Do you feel sexy? Does your DH make you feel desired even if you don't feel like a catch? I feel sexy sometimes during the day. Never by nighttime. Usually H is all over me if he's home, which makes me feel OK when I know I'm gross and haven't had a chance to shower or just look a mess!

Lilleybug · June 2011

1. Yes but not as often as before

2. It is about the same, maybe a bit more since it isnt as often as before. Dh knows I am not happy with my current body, but he is really supportive and always compliments me. I'm sure he liked me better before though. It is Ok I am on a mission to get back to my old self.

3. Not really trying but not really preventing. Pull and Pray is our method too.

4. I do not feel hot at all, but DH tells me Im hot all the time. I think he needs his contacts adjusted

dee1369 · June 2011

1. Are you having it? If so, is it as often as it was pre-baby?

Yes we have it, but not as often. I am almost never in the mood...

2. Is it as passionate as it was before, is it better or less? Does your DH dig your new, curvier, more womanly shape? (Nice way to say it, huh?)

My shape is pretty much the same (lost all of my baby weight) except I have bigger boobs from BFing, which DH loves.

3. Are you preventing a sibling for your LO, or are you at the point right now where you are okay with getting KU again?

No more babies!

4. Do you feel sexy? Does your DH make you feel desired even if you don't feel like a catch?

I know I'm sexy (lol).

nene82388 · June 2011

1. Are you having it? If so, is it as often as it was pre-baby?Yes. We are having it more than pre-baby. I was not into having sex AT ALL while I was pregnant.2. Is it as passionate as it was before, is it better or less? Does your DH dig your new, curvier, more womanly shape? (Nice way to say it, huh?) I think it is more passionate. It is for sure better. Yes I think he does. He tells me I am more beautiful now than I was before. 3. Are you preventing a sibling for your LO, or are you at the point right now where you are okay with getting KU again? We are preventing a sibling. I am not ready to get pregnant just yet. Probably in the spring. 4. Do you feel sexy? Does your DH make you feel desired even if you don't feel like a catch? I am still having self-esteem issues sometimes. I do feel hot sometimes also though. It just depends on the day. Yes he does make me feel desired.

dixielee05 · June 2011

1. Yes and Yes

2. Yes. I'd say the same. DH is fine with the post baby shape.

3. We are preventing with the pill. I'd love to get KU again, but DH isn't ready.

4. I don't feel sexy, but DH tries to make me feel that way.

mimi1017 · June 2011

I wish I was having sex again. Haha! It's been way too long. It's sad I know how long it has been. 4 months and 15 days Embarrassed Since I did hear that it hurts..I'm scared whenever that day comes again!

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