So the ex and I wanna make our schedule for taking our daughter but he wants her 1 week for 4 days and the next week 3 days....and so on...! I don't agree with that. If we go to court will I get more hours with her? It might be selfish but I want her as much as possible.
Re: 50/50
I agree. Especially with his history, I wouldn't want her around him that much.
Good luck with the drug tests.. both of you
"There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. So love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living."
I don't know your back story. Is there a reason you don't want him to see her more? Unles he is a total choad he has just as much of a right to spend time with her as you.
I am always in favor of the 50/50 arrangement, as long as both parents are equally fit. I certainly hope you are only looking out for the best interest of your daughter and not using this as a way to punish him.