BFers - A personal question (sex related)

mellydawn84 · June 2011

Maybe this has already come up, or maybe you can guess what I need to talk about here before I even say it, so here goes:

How do you DTD without leaking!?!?! DH and I haven't officially DTD, since I'm too scared of the pain, but instead we fool around like teenagers and every time I've leaked and it's Really awkward. I can't really get over it and need to know if there is any way Not to? Or do I just forget about foreplay with my boobs for the next year?

ksales31 · June 2011

I have yet to let DH play with my boobs for that same reason. However maybe you could try just buying a sexy bra to wear during foreplay. I know I've read in Cosmo that lots of guys actually like when you leave an article of clothing on during sex.

tokenhoser · June 2011

I'm not much of a leaker, so we just keep a towel close by in case.

I've heard good things about Lilypadz, though.

PhunkeyMonkey · June 2011

I know it kinda erases the spontaneity of the situation but if you pump/feed before foreplay it helps with the leaking a LOT. But other than that the only thing I think you can do is keep a bra on.

croberts22 · June 2011

I just wear my bra. The pads still fit in the sexy bras:)

OP where did you get that onesie? I want one!!

mellydawn84 · June 2011

croberts22:
I just wear my bra. The pads still fit in the sexy bras:)

OP where did you get that onesie? I want one!!

Etsy, I'll PM you the seller. She makes lots of nerd-related onesies. I got one that's World of Warcraft related and another video game onesie for DH for father's day.

aimeecasey · June 2011

I've pumped before DTD or we foreplay in the shower (you don't notice any leaking then!)

toadstool · June 2011

PhunkeyMonkey:

I know it kinda erases the spontaneity of the situation but if you pump/feed before foreplay it helps with the leaking a LOT. But other than that the only thing I think you can do is keep a bra on.

I think this is all you can do. You may still leak but this will help, and then the bra would have to stay on. I'm kinda glad that this doesn't really bother me or dh that much. It would make me sad to not have my boobs touched by him until I stopped bfing.

Tinybride08 · June 2011

I don't leak while DTD. I only did once but right afterwards.

maggiedm · June 2011

I JUST HAD MY DAUGHTER 3 WEEKS AGO... AND IS IT JUST ME??? I CANT EVEN THINK ABOUT SEX... IM TOTALLY NOT TURNED ON AT ALL... I DONT FEEL SEXY... MY DR. SAID WAIT 6 WEEKS UNTIL WE HAVE SEX AGAIN.. BUT AT THIS POINT I DONT WANT HIM TOUCHING ME... WHEN WILL MY DRIVE COME BACK?!??!!!

FEELING BLUE... NOT SEXY... AND DEF NOT TURNED ON

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