TTC After a Loss

Re-joining all of you ladies!

I got a BFP on Saturday and two more on Sunday. They were very light and certainly concerning but I tried my best to be positive. I took a digi to confirm a few days later and it was negative. I had my betas drawn yesterday and started spotting shortly after. I have full blown AF this morning and horrible cramps. I just got a call from the dr and my beta was -5 so the lady said I am not pregnant. CP it is! She acted like she had never heard of that and that I was probably just never pregnant.

UMMMMM I am totally confused. I asked her how that was possible given the pos tests and the fact that af was super late. I am worried b/c I am rh- and need a rhogaham shot if it's an m/c even an early one. I asked about it and she is waiting to get back to me. 

I am more lost than ever.I feel like they don't believe me. I don't want not getting the shot to cause problems later. UGHHGHGHGHGH

Sorry for the ramble I am just defeited!

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  • I'm so sorry that you have to be back here. Hopefully your doctor will straighten the nurse out and you can get your shot. ((HUGS))
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    I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Was it the doctor you spoke to who told you your beta was negative, or was it a nurse/office staff?  If it was a nurse or office person, hopefully they just didn't know what they were talking about, and your doctor will clear things up.  I know that happens to me a lot with the nurses at my OB's office.  They always seem to give me wrong information or not know what is going on, but once I make them check with my doctor, it always gets cleared up.  Good luck, and I hope you get an answer soon!
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  • I'm so sorry you're back again. I hope your dr. is responsive to all of your concerns. Sometimes it's hard getting past the nurse to the doctor. Maybe you could just make an appointment? FX you get some answers soon.
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  • I am so sorry you're going through this :(  To top it off, I'm sorry the nurse doesn't appear to believe you.  I hope you get this figured out soon and you get the care you need!  Big ::HUGS::

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  • Gosh I'm so sorry you're going through this. I am in a similar sitaution with CP's and my dr is doing the whole "let nature take it's course, it's probably nothing" thing - it's making me crazy.

    You're not nuts and you do know what you're talking about. Maybe try a new dr? I know switching now is hard with your history but maybe a new dr would give better insight as to what to do next.

    (((HUGS))) to you and hang in there this week. I'm with ya.

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  • Oh, addiwaddi, I am so sorry.  {{hugs}}

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    I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Was it the doctor you spoke to who told you your beta was negative, or was it a nurse/office staff?  If it was a nurse or office person, hopefully they just didn't know what they were talking about, and your doctor will clear things up.  I know that happens to me a lot with the nurses at my OB's office.  They always seem to give me wrong information or not know what is going on, but once I make them check with my doctor, it always gets cleared up.  Good luck, and I hope you get an answer soon!

    The lady I was speaking to I thought was a nurse. When I asked her about the shot and my concerns she said she would check w/ a nurse and call me back. My Dr is not in the office untlil next Wed. I guess I will have to talk to one of the other Dr's in the office if she doesn't give me what I am looking for.

    Thanks ladies!

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  • That stinks.  Sorry that you are going through the ups and downs of this tought TTCAL journey
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I really hope that you get the answers you need. ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry for you loss and that you are returning to us. I breaks my heart whenever some one comes back. It doesn't sound like that nurse knows what the heck she's talking about. I hope your doctor is able to clear things up for you. ((Big Hugs))
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  • That breaks my heart for you! so sorry she is making you feel like that. ((hugs))

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  • ((big hugs)) I am so sorr your going through this. I hope your dr. figures it out for you.
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  • I'm sorry you're back.  I'm hoping when the doctor answers your question they understand and it's just an unknowledgeable nurse!
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  • I am so sorry you have to go through this again.  I hope your doctor's office gets things figured out for you quickly.
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  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this :(  big ((hugs))  I hope they can figure things out and get back to you soon.
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  • so sorry you are back:( I hate when MD's question their patient's knowledge of their own bodies, personally. I'd ask to talk specifically to your OB, not the nurse, and be firm about your positive tests.

    Hang in there, and hugs!

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    I'm so very sorry you find yourself back here! I would definitely ask to speak with your doc about the rhogam shot...as crappy as it is, sometimes we have to be our own advocate when it comes to this stuff...
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