January 2011 Moms

T&P please...(not bad/sad)

I think I've mentioned before that I'm planning to quit working end of august to be a SAHM...

Well, I took Simon in to the doc today for a recheck of his ears. He's had 4 infections in 3 months, and the pedi said she would send him in for tube surgery now, but since I want to avoid that I have to be able to keep him infection free through the summer. Otherwise it's def tubes. I know it's a common surgery, but the thought of my 5-6 month old baby going under terrifies me. 

So we've made the tough decision to go ahead and take him out of daycare now to give him a real chance of avoiding this, and I'll be giving my 2 weeks at work tomorrow. I'm so nervous I'm sick to my stomach. Hope all goes well.... Please think happy thoughts for us. :)

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Re: T&P please...(not bad/sad)

  • Best of luck Mommy for you and your lil guy:)
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  • imagejaxxx15:
    Best of luck Mommy for you and your lil guy:)

    Thank you so much!

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  • I'm so happy for you that you get to SAH, but sad that poor Simon is having so many ear infections. That is scary. Sending you all lots of T&P! It will all work out don't worry. Family comes first. It's a major life change, but it will be worth it. Smile

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    I'm so happy for you that you get to SAH, but sad that poor Simon is having so many ear infections. That is scary. Sending you all lots of T&P! It will all work out don't worry. Family comes first. It's a major life change, but it will be worth it. Smile

    Thank you! Yeah, that's what it came down to in the end. Family is first, and as a mother I have to do whatever it takes to provide the best for my kids. Another 2 months of working and income is not worth sacrificing Simon's health. I'd hate to look back and think I could have done something more but didn't, you know?

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  • Thanks Ticket! Is it dumb that your one line got me teary eyed?

    You're an awesome mama too, thank you. 

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  • I'm sad to hear that your LO is having so many ear problems. :( That's awesome for you though that you are getting your dream of SAHM with your boys though! If he does end up needing the tubes, try not to worry too much. I had them when I was little and my mom said I was a whole nother baby afterward (happier). I'm sure things will work out to be just fine. :)
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    I'm sad to hear that your LO is having so many ear problems. :( That's awesome for you though that you are getting your dream of SAHM with your boys though! If he does end up needing the tubes, try not to worry too much. I had them when I was little and my mom said I was a whole nother baby afterward (happier). I'm sure things will work out to be just fine. :)

    Thank you so much, that makes me feel much better. :)

     I just went and talked to my boss. I can't believe I'm really doing this! EEK!

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  • I'm so sorry about Simon, I hope it gets better.  You are an awesome momma!  Being a sahm has been the best gift ever.  I hope all goes well with your family!
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  • Sounds like you are definitely making the right decision for your family. Good luck making the transition to SAHM. I hope that it goes smoothly and everything works out the way you want it to.
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  • Good luck!!!
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  • Thinking good thoughts for you.

  • T&P!  Per chance, does he have reflux? 
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    Thats ironnic because I am giving my two weeks notice at work tomorrow also!

    If something happens and your LO ends up having the surgery I am sure your LO will do amazing. Jay had surgery the day he turned three weeks old. He was out for about 3 hours during the surgery. It was very scary but it seems like babies are so resilient. It is now like nothing has ever happened to him.

    No matter what happens I wish you the best!

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    T&P!  Per chance, does he have reflux? 

    yes, but he's a happy spitter. None of that back arching and screaming at the bottle business, thank goodness! We've managed to keep in mostly under control with small frequent bottles. Why do you ask? :)

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    T & P

    Thats ironnic because I am giving my two weeks notice at work tomorrow also!

    If something happens and your LO ends up having the surgery I am sure your LO will do amazing. Jay had surgery the day he turned three weeks old. He was out for about 3 hours during the surgery. It was very scary but it seems like babies are so resilient. It is now like nothing has ever happened to him.

    No matter what happens I wish you the best!

    Oh how exciting! Best wishes for you and Jay and staying home! And thank you for sharing his surgery story, that does make me feel better. if it should end up he needs it, then he needs it, but at least I'll have tried my best. :) These little guys really are tougher than we give them credit for sometimes!

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    imagebethyla:
    T&P!  Per chance, does he have reflux? 

    yes, but he's a happy spitter. None of that back arching and screaming at the bottle business, thank goodness! We've managed to keep in mostly under control with small frequent bottles. Why do you ask? :)

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    imagebethyla:
    T&P!  Per chance, does he have reflux? 

    yes, but he's a happy spitter. None of that back arching and screaming at the bottle business, thank goodness! We've managed to keep in mostly under control with small frequent bottles. Why do you ask? :)

     

    Ignore the post above this.  Not sure what happened.  Is he on any medication for the reflux?

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    imageamandabrown530:

    imagebethyla:
    T&P!  Per chance, does he have reflux? 

    yes, but he's a happy spitter. None of that back arching and screaming at the bottle business, thank goodness! We've managed to keep in mostly under control with small frequent bottles. Why do you ask? :)

     

    Ignore the post above this.  Not sure what happened.  Is he on any medication for the reflux?

     We tried prevacid for about a week but it was making him throw up. I know that sounds ridiculous since it's supposed to PREVENT that. If he spits up now it's just a burp and a tiny little gets in his mouth, doesn't even come out usually. On the prevacid though it was full on non-projectile throwing up.  So we talked with his doctor and took him off it.

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  • Poor little guy...but just think you'll get to be home for the summer with your boys. They will LOVE that! Good luck!
  • Thank you! Yes, Joshua is SO excited. I'm loving spending extra time with him while he's home from school!
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