Since DH and I already have a 18 mom old that was naturally conceived I am now worried with doing IVF ( DH has motility and morph issues) that we might have twins. Dr. Said that because I'm 40 the chances are low. The younger you are the more likely you will have twins. I mean I know that we need to transfer more than one fertilized egg but has anyone heard of this?
Re: Chances of Multiples?
I think the higher chances of multiples if you are younger has to do with egg quality, or at least that's what I am assuming that's what your RE meant.
With respect to multiples, I know exactly how you feel. We have a 17 month old DD and we did IUI. If we could afford IVF for #2 we would do it and just transfer 1 because, quite frankly, the cost of having twins scares me. So we are waiting a little longer to TTC #2 just to make sure we're in a financial place to be OK if we do have twins. If I knew we could get PG with only 1, I'd do it right away.
I'm not sure what you are asking - what have I heard of? People having twins from IVF? Yes, there are lots of us.
So golden rule of IVF is - don't put back more embies than the number of babies you are willing to have. Yes. there is still a small chance that you can end up with ID twins with a single transfer, but those odds are a lot lower than when you transfer 2 or even 3.
4 Fresh IVF cycles + 1 FET where embies didn't survive the thaw = 2 perfect little men!
sFET 11/9/11 - Beta 11/18 BFP!
You don't have to transfer more than you are comfortable carrying. If you are against having twins, don't transfer two.
Best of luck to you!
Older women tend to have more spontaneous fraternal twins. The reason is that you are more likely to release multiple eggs in a cycle the closer you get to menopause. Nothing to do with IVF.
Oooh, I didn't even think about that! I also agree with everyone else-if you're only okay with 1 baby, then only transfer 1 embryo...
maybe you could play it by ear and see what your embie quality is--transfer one if you have a great quality embryo, two if they are lower quality?
these are tough decisions with no easy answers. good luck!
just throwing something out there... us old girls CAN have good eggs. Maybe. (those that know my story are likely laughing)
I'm 38 next week, and I walk in on cd1 with 20 antrals on each ove, and from EACH of our 3 fresh IVF's they've gotten a dozen or so eggs mature from them. Sure, I have to hit them over the heads with a baseball bat loaded with gonal-F, but I do it. (they're just tiredddddd!!!!!)
Yes, not the norm. AMA is real, and lots of women fight with egg quality around their 40's. (and perhaps I have that to come, lol. aintthatakickinthehead)
But just because you're "old" doesn't mean you're automatically going to have ovaries that act like it. You're just doomed for it.
lol.
Your doctor will be able to guide you (and they SHOULD) about how many to transfer based on their quality and the wishes you have re: multiples. Bug them. Twice. ;-) GL !
At 36, we got 14 eggs, with 8 mature and fertilized. We transferred 2 and froze 5! So I actually had very good egg quality.
Obviously, I only have one DD, and my RE has a pretty high twin rate.... We did have 2 at my first u/s but lost it before we ever had a heartbeat.
I'd say don't transfer more than you're willing to carry, but have a frank talk with your RE about it. I was unwilling to transfer more than 2. Based on my embryo quality, my RE was absolutely unwilling to transfer more than two, too. The first words out of his mouth when he came in for the transfer were 'Wow, you have gorgeous embryos, I had a hard time choosing!' and he told me he'd have argue with me if I'd wanted more than two. At 40, I think 2 is considered the standard of care.