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A random sex/orgasm PSA...

Not sure if I've been living under a rock or what but I read recently that your orgasm is more intense if your bladder is full.  It has to do with the pressure of the bladder pushing on your g-spot.  Turns out it also meant faster and more frequently for me as well.

Cool trick. 

I was thinking "wow... I wish I'd known this 20 years ago!" so I thought of all of you lovely young ladies and  wanted to share.

(and of course I know this may not be at the top of the priority list for those with very young kids or lactating moms who rank sex pretty low right now but trust me when I tell you that you'll get back to wanting sex again!) 

Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.

Re: A random sex/orgasm PSA...

  • lol :)  this post is sure to get a lot of views!  the only problem with this is that after having a baby, i'm afraid I will pee myself Stick out tongue
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  • I have heard this. Just make sure you go to the bathroom pretty quick after.....it inceeases the risk of a UTI or bladder infection...atleast that is what I read 
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  • I am glad it works for you, it doesn't for me. It keeps me from relaxing and then I can't. Ugg!

  • huh--interesting!  i'll give it a shot! =)
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  • Ahhhh, good ol' Shell, always good for a post on sex. Or kids touching their wangs. lol.
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  • Yeah but what if you are a ummm... ugh, I can't say it on a public board (I think there are porn sites with this title).  But basically a full bladder can make for a wetter bed I would imagine when you have an issue with, ummm, that thing (think squirt guns).

    Um- we are all family here right?

    I can't believe we have talking about sex and orgasms in the middle of a Monday.  Isn't this type of thing reserved for evenings and nights???  Ha! 

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  • I would also be worried that I would pee myself!  Maybe once I want to start having sex again (poor DH is trying to hang in there but getting frustrated I think), we can try it.
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  • imageGermanwife2b:

    I can't believe we have talking about sex and orgasms in the middle of a Monday.  Isn't this type of thing reserved for evenings and nights???  Ha! 

    LMAO!!!

    You're cracking me up.

    1.  It's Tuesday in my world.

    2.  I'm not on much at nights any more.

    3.  I just test drove it for the first time really well this morning and was too impatient to wait to share!

     

    hee hee 

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
  • imageMouseygail:
    lol :)  , i'm afraid I will pee myself Stick out tongue

    Funny.... DH's first comment was - "now let's just hope you never have any incontinence issues!"

    Which I followed with - "Who knew this would be an up side to never having had a vaginal delivery?!?!"

    And then:  "And by the time I have old age related incontinence (if there is such a thing) I doubt protecting the quality of my orgasms will be a top priority for me."

     

      

     

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    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
  • Interesting thought.  I also am afraid of peeing myself.  My uterus curls all the way around my bladder so any time my cervix gets ... bumped (?) I feel like I have to be careful not to whiz everywhere.
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  • Oh how this post reminds this lactating mom of young kids, what an amazing orgasm I had Sunday....

    ;)

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  • imagebeebe929:

    Oh how this post reminds this lactating mom of young kids, what an amazing orgasm I had Sunday....

    ;)

    Embarrassed

    I'm SOOO jealous!

    When I was lactating I had ZERO interest in sex.

    So.

    Jealous.

    Good for you!!!!! 

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
  • imagehowleyshell:
    imageGermanwife2b:

    I can't believe we have talking about sex and orgasms in the middle of a Monday.  Isn't this type of thing reserved for evenings and nights???  Ha! 

    LMAO!!!

    You're cracking me up.

    1.  It's Tuesday in my world.

    2.  I'm not on much at nights any more.

    3.  I just test drove it for the first time really well this morning and was too impatient to wait to share!

     

    hee hee 

    We shiit!  It's not Monday?  I was convinced it was Monday.  How did Tuesday get here?  Fine then.  I think I shall go practice this theory out...alone...and with a full bladder....and with towels underneath just in case ;-)

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  • imageGermanwife2b:
    .and with towels underneath just in case ;-)

    Towels?

    Don't tell me with 2 little one's you don't have an ultimate crib sheet or some other wickedly absorbent kid-friendly mattress protector kinda thing?

    hee hee

     Drink up!!!

    I hope it's fun for you!!!! 

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
  • imagehowleyshell:

    imageGermanwife2b:
    .and with towels underneath just in case ;-)

    Towels?

    Don't tell me with 2 little one's you don't have an ultimate crib sheet or some other wickedly absorbent kid-friendly mattress protector kinda thing?

    hee hee

     Drink up!!!

    I hope it's fun for you!!!! 

    The kiddo sleeps in his bed so he's got the protection on his bed :-)  I will use towels- easier to change than the whole dang bed! 

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  • imageGermanwife2b:
    imagehowleyshell:

    imageGermanwife2b:
    .and with towels underneath just in case ;-)

    Towels?

    Don't tell me with 2 little one's you don't have an ultimate crib sheet or some other wickedly absorbent kid-friendly mattress protector kinda thing?

    hee hee

     Drink up!!!

    I hope it's fun for you!!!! 

    The kiddo sleeps in his bed so he's got the protection on his bed :-)  I will use towels- easier to change than the whole dang bed! 

     

    Hurray for nap time!

    If people only knew what we were up to while the kids sleep....

    And DH thinks I'm doing laundry?

    HA! 

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
  • imagehowleyshell:
    imagebeebe929:

    Oh how this post reminds this lactating mom of young kids, what an amazing orgasm I had Sunday....

    ;)

    Embarrassed

    I'm SOOO jealous!

    When I was lactating I had ZERO interest in sex.

    So.

    Jealous.

    Good for you!!!!! 

    SOOOOO.

    VERY.

    Jealous.

    I've been lactating for nearly three years and haven't wanted sex more than 5 times.  I pray it returns.

  • imagehowleyshell:
    imagebeebe929:

    Oh how this post reminds this lactating mom of young kids, what an amazing orgasm I had Sunday....

    ;)

    Embarrassed

    I'm SOOO jealous!

    When I was lactating I had ZERO interest in sex.

    So.

    Jealous.

    Good for you!!!!! 

    Add zoloft to the mix and it's even worse. I'm very jealous!
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