We decided to tell family only for now and we will tell everyone else at 12 weeks. DH family seems to be excited but his sister thinks we are crazy for telling so early. conversation went as follows: Her "do you know how early that is?" DH: "yes, but sss is already showing" (my bloat is out of control, I totally look pregnant already and even my baggy shirts dont hide it) probably not the best choice of words on DH's part but whatever, Her: "do you know how much the baby weighs right now? Nothing." DH: "do you want her to expain it to you?" Her: "Im aware of how that all works." Then she went on to say congratulations and how thats exciting but it totally made me feel stupid for telling his family this early. We told them early last time and she thought it was too early then but didnt really say much. Im just frustrated because if I didnt say anything they all would have been speculating at family get togethers because its obvious im not my normal size right now. They probably would have been mad if I would have "tried" to hide it. Her comments just stung just because most people can hide it doesnt mean everyone can. Im not going to lie or carry on with family as if Im not pregnant when its clear that I am. Ugh! I love my In laws and we all have a really good relationship but now I feel like they all think Im trying to be an AW or something.
ETA: spelling, grammar