WWYD: stopping meds

Mrs.Reem · June 2011

As you know, the transfer for Thursday is off.

When I heard the news I immediately stopped taking the estrogen and didn't start the progesterone that was due the next day, because I couldn't bear the thought of putting even more needless hormones into my body.

The RE's nurse emailed me today and they wanted me to keep taking the estrogen and take progesterone with it for 7 more days. I told them I'd already stopped meds.

Then she emailed back saying that they were calling in a Rx for provera and that I am to take that for7 days because "I might not get my period in a timely fashion after stopping meds cold turkey."

Who the hell cares? It shouldn't matter when I get my period because I'm not going in for a transfer at all. The contract has been cancelled. She also told me to let her know when cycle day one starts. What? Why?

Anyway, what would you do? Suck it up and take the provera or give myself a stinkin' break from all of the hormones?

I don't want to be a bad patient but enough is enough. Maybe I'm being petty. It's okay to say so.

mrsolsenk12 · June 2011

I know when I was on estrace they had me wean down off of it when I stopped taking it. Honestly, I hate provera and would avoid it if possible. I guess I don't see why you need it. Are they doing some sort of check on you for CD1?

Also I saw your posts last week about what happened and that just stinks for you but good for them. I was OOT so I didn't get to reply.

DavezWife · June 2011

I wish I could throat-punch someone for you. Sorry.

IF you think you would consider hopping back on the horse, and IF they needed you in a couple/few weeks (i.e. this doesn't work for her) and IF you had it in you to do this all over again... I'd....

nevermind.

I don't care what your decision is, and knowing you, it's not black and white and decide-able right now anyways.

I say stop the meds and enjoy your summer. You can revisit things down the road should you choose. And I'm not sure there's one person in this joint that would question EITHER way you make that decision. If it's meant to be, they can wait for you and the timing that's right for your family.

::::sheaths thy sword and goes back to watching CareBears with Ava:::::

emmyloustu · June 2011

DavezWife:
I say stop the meds and enjoy your summer. You can revisit things down the road should you choose. And I'm not sure there's one person in this joint that would question EITHER way you make that decision. If it's meant to be, they can wait for you and the timing that's right for your family.

DITTO!!!!

Mrs.Reem · June 2011

There's no check on cd1. While I rocked Ana to sleep, I was thinking about why the RE would want to do this and know when cd 1 is. My guess is that he has little faith in the pregnancy. That's sad, and it kind of makes me mad at him. If I can send her positive vibes for success then he should too.

I am on standby to see how things go, but I've been non-committal about finishing the last round. Yes I want to do it, but not if it's not going to work for my family whenever the time would come, and I don't want to hang in limbo forever either. My sister is due in October and I'll be caring for her baby. The longer this goes on, the more it causes difficulties for others in addition to me.

I go back and forth. I tell myself to quit being a baby. Then I'm aware of how good I'm feeling off the meds and I waiver. lol Hello, my name is Angie and I'm wishy washy.

ladychicago · June 2011

Ok, first, I just got caught up. Wow. That is all I can say. Second, I say forget the meds. You aren't being a baby....you feel good and there is no reason your body needs to do anything in a timely manner! God forbid things dont pan out for them, i can't imagine they are going to want to jump into a transfer right away. Do what feels good and right for you. If your ute is needed again, there will be plenty of time to get you back on schedule.

dusk42 · June 2011

I say you've already stopped, so enjoy life not on meds. Whatever happens, happens. Channel all the energy from dealing with meds into good juju, not into the RE whims.

NiniJ55 · June 2011

I vote to stay off the meds. There seems no need for them and no need for the RE to know when you CD1 is. It's sad that he is thinking the worst of her pregnancy already - but I guess he knows the details.

Good luck -- and I vote to enjoy feeling good again.

Mrs.Reem · June 2011

dusk42:

Channel all the energy from dealing with meds into good juju, not into the RE whims.

I like that!

JillRock96 · June 2011

First, (((BIG HUGS))). I'm just catching up, and just managed to pick my jaw up off the floor. I know you're feeling 8 million emotions right now (and are entitled to every last one of them), and if I can be there for you in any way, please let me know.

Second, I agree with dusk42 100%.

dusk42:

I say you've already stopped, so enjoy life not on meds. Whatever happens, happens. Channel all the energy from dealing with meds into good juju, not into the RE whims.

dundasgirl · June 2011

I think since you already stopped...just go with it. This is an opinion I have not from a medical perspective, but from a personal one. I was kinda worried about you while you were pumped up on those meds these last couple of weeks. It wasn't good. You were feeling really unwell. dusk said it well.

LucyPevensie · June 2011

My experience with the nurses at my RE's office has been this: they just CAN'T. SEE. PAST. PROTOCOL. MUST. FOLLOW. ARBITRARY. PROTOCOL.

Until someone makes it VERY CLEAR - that's NOT the case. I mean - call her on day one? What? NOOO. Jeezus.

I think you are fine. I'd call back and make it very clear - IT'S ALL OVER AND WE'RE NOT STARTING UP AGAIN. ALL. DONE. NOW.

And let them know you don't CARE when you get your period so is there any medical reason you need to take provera?! I bet the answer is "um, well, no."

sweetpea18 · June 2011

Mrs.Reem:
There's no check on cd1. While I rocked Ana to sleep, I was thinking about why the RE would want to do this and know when cd 1 is. My guess is that he has little faith in the pregnancy. That's sad, and it kind of makes me mad at him. If I can send her positive vibes for success then he should too.
I am on standby to see how things go, but I've been non-committal about finishing the last round. Yes I want to do it, but not if it's not going to work for my family whenever the time would come, and I don't want to hang in limbo forever either. My sister is due in October and I'll be caring for her baby. The longer this goes on, the more it causes difficulties for others in addition to me.
I go back and forth. I tell myself to quit being a baby. Then I'm aware of how good I'm feeling off the meds and I waiver. lol Hello, my name is Angie and I'm wishy washy.

Oh jeez, I forgot your sister was pregnant. I say stay off the meds, enjoy your girls right now and reassess things at a later time (if need be!).

Mrs.Reem · June 2011

Thanks ladies! I love ya.

Dundas I agree. the hormones were not treating me well at all. It was time to stop.

LucyP I think you're right about the arbitrary protocol.

I'm feeling crampy anyway so no doubt AF is around the corner. No harm done I'm guessing.

dusk42 · June 2011

Mrs.Reem:
dusk42:

Channel all the energy from dealing with meds into good juju, not into the RE whims.
I like that!

You have more energy than anyone I "know," so that's some powerful juju!

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