Pregnant after a Loss

Cue tears and freak out.

Ten weeks is when we found the twins no longer had a heart beat. I am ten weeks today and  all I can do is cry that something has happend to this LO.


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  • I'm sorry about this sad milestone. I really empathize with how you're feeling. As DH keeps telling me, think positive. The same thing is not necessarily going to happen again. Sending you many hugs, T & P's, and I hope that after today you can celebrate this milestone, rather than worry that history will repeat itself. Good luck. Thinking of you! (HUGS!)
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    BFP#1 - 8/27/10 - D&C 10/27/10 @ 13 weeks to Trisomy 18
    Missing our Angel Baby Gabriel
    BFP#2 - 3/18/11 - CP 3/19/11 BFP#3 - 4/27/11 - Due 1/9/12
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    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
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  • *BIG HUGS* That's a big milestone to get through, just try to take deep breaths and remember this pregnancy is different. Go easy on yourself today.
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    (((HUGS)))

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    DS2 July 2013
    DS3 February 2016




  • I am so sorry today is difficult for you, big ::HUGS::  I hope today passes by quickly and uneventful for you!

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  • KiKiMeKiKiMe member
    :::hugs::: to you!
    Started TTC in 2/09. Dx with PCOS in 09/09. BFP on 11/7/09.
    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
    01/11 = BFP!
    Finnegan Alexander born 9/25/11 via emergency c-section
  • ((Hugs)) This is such a hard milestone. I was quite a wreck when we reached the point in the pregnancy of our loss - nightmares, just feeling sure that something was going to happen. Once I got passed it and had my next appt, I did start to feel a lot less worried though. I hope you get reassurance soon that your LO is doing just fine.
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  • (((hugs))) pgal is such a difficult journey.
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    ?BFP#2 6/3/11 EDD 2/14/11?

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  • ((HUGS))  Hope today goes quickly for you.  Remember, this is a different pregnancy and there is no reason to believe you will have the same outcome as the last. 
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  • Im sorry. These milestones are hard... Sending hugs to you.

     

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  • Huge hugs!  I'm so sorry you are having a hard time with today's milestone.  This is a different pregnancy and there is absolutely no reason to believe that your LO is anything but perfect.  I hope that once you get through today you will feel better!
    BFP#1 11-26-10 MMC 1-13-11
    BFP#2 6-8-11 Eleanor Beatrice born 2-15-12
    BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14

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  • That's definitely a tough milestone to make it past.  Sending lots of (((hugs))) your way!
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    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • Being at the point of a previous loss is scary, but remember, this is a different pregnancy and can have a different outcome. 

    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11

    BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14

     

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  • Big hugs for you today.
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

  • Thinking of you today Ash. You know I've got your back, so feel free to vent, anytime. Your LO is still going strong, just keep your head up. We'll get you through this.
    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
     
    Please, please, please. 
  • ((HUGS))  I'm totally with you.   10 weeks is when I lost my last pregnancy but I didn't find out until 13 weeks.   So I am wreck this week too. 
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  • Big hugs today!
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    Muffin, I am so excited you are pg again!!!  I pray this is your sticky baby!

     Danielle

    EDIT: I meant to say first, I'm sorry you are feeling scared. I can't even imagine.

  • Im sorry for your hard day ... t&p's for peace and good vibes your way. Hugs!!

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    BFP!! 06/14/2011

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    I'm sorry you're going through a rough milestone today, Ash.  Deep breaths, my friend!  This is a different pg and WILL have a different outcome.  You know how to reach me if you need anything!  Hugs and love to you!
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  • (((BIG HUGS))) That's a tough milestone to pass :(
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  • iggy.diggy.d member
    Big hugs to you. :( I hope today comes and goes quickly and you're on to tomoorw. I know it's hard but try to remember that this pregnancy isn't the last pregnancy. More hugs!
    BFP#1 10/5/09 | Heartbeat 11/1/09 | D&C 11/24/09 (no hb)
    BFP#2 02/18/11 * Beta@15dpo=215 * @18dpo=698 * @20dpo=2337 * @25dpo=10,931 * DS Arrived October 24, 2011
    BFP#3 08/12 | D&C 9/12 (no hb)
    BFP#4 Due May 1, 2014 Stick baby stick!
  • So sorry that today is a tough milestone to get through.  I hope that the day goes quickly and you are able to feel more at peace in the coming days!
    BFP#1 - 6/06 - DD - 2/07 BFP#2 - 7/30/10 - missed m/c 9w5d - D&C 9/15/10 @ 11w1d
    BFP#3 - 6/5/11 - DS - 2/10/12
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    ((HUGE HUG)) for you, DH, and Mini Muffin. Try to relax and treat yourself well (emotionally) today. Breathe in and breathe out. Love you lady!
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  • These sad and scary milestones are not easy to get through- but just keep in mind that this is not the same pregnancy. I hope that after today passes you will feel a little better. As PP said "Stay Strong" :)
    Me 36 DH 38
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    BFP #1 3/11 m/c 7w 3d blighted ovum
    BFP #2 5/11 DD born 1/12
    BFP #3 3/16 Chemical Pregnancy
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  • awe muffin, i am sending you strength! just think, once you get past this milestone, you will be so happy! you can do it, i know you can!

    sending lots of hugs your way today!

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  • Lots of T&Ps and happy energy to you and your LO.
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  • Big big hugs. You will make it through today and have great things to look forward to.
  • You're not alone.  I think we all do the same thing when we hit that awful milestone.  I remember not wanting to get out of bed at 11w2d, thinking that if I just skipped the day, there would be nothing to worry about.  (((HUGS))) to you today!
    Forever missing Baby Z #3 ~ Natural m/c 4.12.2010 at 11w2d
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    and one handsome little man*
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    Al~4.5.2008~born big and healthy @ 38w~7lbs 9.5ozs
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  • ((Hugs)) milestones are so hard.
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  • ((Big HUGS)) to you.  I'm so sorry you have a rough day ahead of you.  I hope today goes quickly and you get to see/hear your LO soon for reassurance.  When is your next appointment?
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    BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
    BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12

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  • So sorry, these milestones are always hard. Just keep telling yourself that this pregnancy is different. Hugs and hope you feel better.
    BFP 7/27/10, no hb discovered 9/3/10, natural m/c 9/17/10
    BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
    BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
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  • *big hug*  hoping and praying that this little one stays cooking for another 30wks!
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  • Big hugs to you today!

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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