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Looks Like a BFN

Aaron'sAlliAaron'sAlli
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I tested negative at 5dp5dt (12dpo). Looks like a BFN for me. I guess I shouldn't have expected much because we were so lucky to have IVF #1 be a success and the chances of two BFP's with two IVF's would have been outrageously lucky. We are so blessed to have DD, but knowing how wonderful having her in our lives is makes it that much worse that I won't get to experience having another child. My beta is in two days to confirm...at least I won't be surprised when the phone call comes.

I'm seriously hanging on by a thin thread at work right now.   

Diagnosis: Endometriosis with Complete Tubal Blockage IVF # 1 Fresh Cycle- It's a girl!! 8/12/09 IVF # 2 FET- MC IVF # 3 Fresh Cycle-MC IVF # 4 FET- BFP Arriving 8/8/12!!
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  • MouseygailMouseygail member
    ((((Hugs))))  I'm so sorry :(
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  • charmcitygirlcharmcitygirl member
    I'm sorry! I think that 5dp5dt is still only 10dpo. Maybe it's too early!
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  • DavezWifeDavezWife member
    um, 5dp5dt is still too early. I'm not one to spread false glitter farts, but that's too early girl. Give it two more days.  GL!
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  • foxybridefoxybride member
    I'm so sorry.  I know how this feels - the whole, "I should be happy because I have one miracle, but it still hurts" thing.  It really, really sucks.  HUGS
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  • Fillegirl25Fillegirl25
    I know EXACTLY how you feel! I was lucky with IVF #1 too and my FET was a bust, waiting on a miscarriage. I wonder if you will do a fresh cycle again and when your Dr. said it would be ok. How do you feel going through all this? I know I am a sad, but so blessed to have my son. I am ALOT stronger than I ever imagined. I want a sibling for my son and I won't stop until it happens, but I often wish the magic of an "oops" would happen .I wish you well!
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  • DavezWifeDavezWife member

    also, if you did a transfer of 5 day old embryos on June 14th, you're 6dp5dt. (or "11dpo")  Still a day early for many. Still in the game, I say. Try evening pee, I'm convinced it's better than FMU. And FRER's are nice. Digitals might not pick it up yet. Remember, FETs can take a day or two longer, too.

     

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  • Aaron'sAlliAaron'sAlli

    imageDavezWife:
    um, 5dp5dt is still too early. I'm not one to spread false glitter farts, but that's too early girl. Give it two more days.  GL!

    Ummmm... glitter farts?? Lol. Thanks for the laugh! Big Smile 

    I did get my last IVF BFP at that point so I'm a little frustrated that I didn't get one this time.   

    Diagnosis: Endometriosis with Complete Tubal Blockage IVF # 1 Fresh Cycle- It's a girl!! 8/12/09 IVF # 2 FET- MC IVF # 3 Fresh Cycle-MC IVF # 4 FET- BFP Arriving 8/8/12!!
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  • Aaron'sAlliAaron'sAlli
    imageDavezWife:

    also, if you did a transfer of 5 day old embryos on June 14th, you're 6dp5dt. (or "11dpo")  Still a day early for many. Still in the game, I say. Try evening pee, I'm convinced it's better than FMU. And FRER's are nice. Digitals might not pick it up yet. Remember, FETs can take a day or two longer, too.

     

    I triggered on 6/7... Wouldn't that make me 12dpo when I tested last night?

    Diagnosis: Endometriosis with Complete Tubal Blockage IVF # 1 Fresh Cycle- It's a girl!! 8/12/09 IVF # 2 FET- MC IVF # 3 Fresh Cycle-MC IVF # 4 FET- BFP Arriving 8/8/12!!
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  • naflmjnaflmj member

    imagecharmcitygirl:
    I'm sorry! I think that 5dp5dt is still only 10dpo. Maybe it's too early!

    This exactly...test in 2 days.

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    TTC #1- unexplained...lost left ovary 4/07 IUI #1 2/10/09-BFN IUI #2 3/5/09-BFN IVF # 1-BFP

    TTC#2- FET 4/7/11 BFP, Natural mc 5/5/11 IVF#2 ER 9/13/11, ET 9/16/11, Beta #1 9/27/11 BFP 254 Beta #2 9/30/11 793 -Twins!

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