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princess101
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Update to drama post....
princess101
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So I posted this the other day...
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/54760254.aspx
So right after I sent the 18 y/o that message I also sent the cheating d-bag a message, just to be fair. The message I sent him did not include any name-calling or anything untrue. It did start out with "Shame on you." though.
18 y/o posted on her FB saying that she's not a homewrecker and do some research and called me a b&*tch and everything else. Then her little friends threatened to kick my ass and then the girl called me a "city slicker" lmao and said she owns this town and I should get out. It violated the terms of FB and constituted abuse (with the actual words she said and the responses) and I reported it and got it deleted. Then she posted again about how "old chicks" want to start drama on FB. I am 31 and my friend is 24 LOL. I also sent her the message privately and didn't do anything that would embarrass her publicly...she chose to do that herself.
So then, the cheating d-bag husband flips out because of the message I sent him and told his wife that I was sooo mean and that I was following him around town "stalking" him (when we were in a different city at the time) and said he's going to get a restraining order..which is hilarious b/c he has no grounds. I read the message to my friend and she was shocked that it wasn't mean and had no name-calling etc.
So anyway, there's some popcorn grabbing drama for the day. I held my tongue after my initial message because I figure that this 18 y/o will get cheated on in the long run and is at this point CHOOSING to be naive and stupid about things..and that will be her karma or whatever you want to call it. I tried to be nice and still got threatened which is funny to me. I kinda wish I would've sent the first mean version of my message now. :P
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Re: Update to drama post....
This, but now that you've said your peace I think I would let it all be.
See, I thought that maybe someone that she didn't know pointing out how disrespectful it is to post about someone else's husband publicly would get through to her. Had my friend said something she'd chalk it up to her being jealous/crazy etc. I gave her too much credit though since she just turned on the dramz anyway.
I'm totally done with it at this point. I have no need or desire to say anything else, plus the divorce papers are being served in about a week.
As someone whose husband also had an affair and let it be openly known on Facebook as did the other woman (who also knew he was married), I applaud you for standing up and saying something. It amazes me the amount of people who sit on the side on watch horrible things without saying a damn thing to the party causing damage. I will always adore my husband's grandmother for posting a comment regarding how distasteful it was of the other woman to post a picture of her and my husband online (and she did it to my husband, as well).
So thank you, Princess, for saying something in a world where people would rather be polite than call someone out for hurting others.
Hahahahahah nice!