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Need advice about my son's nana

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My son's nana sent me a slightly nasty e-mail about how my son's father is struggling financially but I am separated with my son's father because he broke the rules for the second time and dealt with the police again. It was slight discriminatory and I felt the e-mail was more about her son than it is of my son and I feel I am out of the picture. She seemed judgmental and asking for too much like she makes decisions and rulings of my family of my son and I and my son's father. She sent me from saying if I don't make a decision then she will hire a best lawyer to when can we visit. I need to reply back to her and I do not know how. Especially my grandma is in her death bed and this is making my stress a lot worst. Please help!
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Re: Need advice about my son's nana

  • sweetie0228sweetie0228 member

    I'm not really understanding the situation.

    Is she threatening grandparents rights/visitation or is she saying if you don't get back w/ her son and support his azz then she will hire a lawyer for him and he'll get more visitation for the LO?

    Either way I would probably ignore her.

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  • hollinorhollinor member
    Well, seeing as how your child's father is obviously very childish, and she was the one who raised him....  And instead of focusing her attention on her son who is not being a good father, she chooses to admonish you for trying to take care of your child...  I wouldn't look to her to be reasonable or use the brain she was given in any way.  She may be full of hot air, who knows.  I would tune her out and focus on my child.  I don't know if you have a court order in place already, but if not, I would do so right away.
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  • r9stedtr9stedt
    Was that English??
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  • okballet16okballet16 member

    I'm having trouble understanding this..

    also when I first read it I thought it said son's nanny and that was very confusing

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  • LeCarverLeCarver
    I'm sorta going through the same thing....my MIL acts more of wife than a mother to my sons father....we have been together for 5 yrs and after 3 yrs straight of us being together,he has been in and out of jail when hes out, she calls...visits but when he's in,she completley ignores me and her grandson:( after having to deal with that bs for almost 2 yrs i see it as a good thing shes not in his life...my advice is that you need to do what u gotta do...let her do or at least try whatever she feels like she needs to...your court will see as good as mine, you are his mommy and that lil boy wont be going anywhere..
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