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What do you miss the most? (NBR)

DefiantRoseDefiantRose
in March 2011 Moms

Sorry for the random post, but its nearly 5am, I can't sleep, and I'm bored out of my mind.

What's something that you miss the most about the beginning of your relationship with your S/O?  Things always seem so wonderful in the very beginning, then things tend to slowly change as you get used to one another. 

When DH and I first started dating he would tell me I was beautiful every day, without fail.  I would also get such sweet texts from him when he was at work telling me I was his world, and how my eyes sparkled when I saw him.  Don't get me wrong, DH still has his romantic moments, but I do miss being told I'm beautiful.  (I'm on the big side, and no one aside from him has EVER made me feel beautiful)

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  • sweetpea2718sweetpea2718
    DH also started his 3 year master's program a year before DS was born, so there is more than just a baby that's challenged our relationship! I miss lazing around in bed in the morning with coffee, having DH plan an outing or fun date, and going for long runs together.  We'll get back there at some point, I just think this first year is hard.  He wants to try for # 2 next summer though so he/she is born as he's finishing school.  I'm thinking we need more time...
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  • amethyst1220amethyst1220
    The sex, lol. ETA: meaning the frequency of it
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  • GinafawnyGinafawny member
    The sex is still great but I miss the foreplay.
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  • EmandChris08EmandChris08 member
    Well, DH and I have been together since we were 15 (and now we're 27), so it's hard to remember back that far. But I would say I just miss being more affectionate. We don't always take the time to hug or kiss or hold hands or cuddle anymore, and I definitely miss that.
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  • amy259amy259 member

    We never cuddle anymore!!! He also used to bring me flowers all the time.

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  • RayRay007RayRay007 member
    I miss laying in bed til all hours of the morning talking about anything and everything.

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  • apricotyapricoty
    Everything ... our relationship is nothing what it used to be.  I still love him and he loves me - of that I'm certain - but the tenderness and intimacy we once shared seems to be lost.  I'm really hoping to regain it soon.
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  • devilbaby713devilbaby713

    imageEmandChris08:
    Well, DH and I have been together since we were 15 (and now we're 27), so it's hard to remember back that far. But I would say I just miss being more affectionate. We don't always take the time to hug or kiss or hold hands or cuddle anymore, and I definitely miss that.

    This is us 100%. We used to be that couple that would always kiss and show our affection to one another. Now not so much. Now I get a slap on the ass when he wants to get laid. We also used to cuddle every night and often would fall asleep in each others arms.

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  • TwinkzTwinkz
    Honestly, nothing. He was stationed in Okinawa Japan when we started dating. I had my alarm set at 11pm every night so I could talk to him for a little bit while he was on lunch, then we'd talk on my drive into work. It was difficult to juggle, lead to little sleep, and just all around difficult. When he was stationed in California it wasn't quite as bad but it was still long distance. We didn't get married until he EASed.
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  • gullterregullterre
    I miss DH's positive attitude.  He seems to hve gotten pretty negative slowly over the years.  He is actually now on antidepressents so hopefully that will help.
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  • jessjenks735jessjenks735 member
     I definitely miss being more affectionate. hold hands, hugs, kisses, random sweet textes. We are just too time consumed with work and kids that we dont take too much time to hug and hold hands. We use to go on dates and we would just talk over dinner just asking each other random question just getting to know each other again. It was great date nights.
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  • BeetleLinz1125BeetleLinz1125 member

    I don't miss much...when we first started dating he was working nights and I work days, so I got to see him if I was lucky 2 times a week.  He also lived 45 minutes away....

    The only thing I can honestly miss is the lazy Sundays we would have.  We would lay in bed all day (usually until 4 or 5) talk, cuddle, have sex....and I don't think we have done that in 3 years lol.  And now that's definitely not going to happen much anymore. 

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