I DD'd

Mrs.Reem · June 2011

I decided to take down my original post.

Basically - K, the intended mother that I was to carry for, is pregnant.

I'm in shock. Everyone is in shock and only time will tell how things will go. Please pray for her.

thanks for your support. Love y'all.

lrrb · June 2011

Holy crap!!! You have to be kidding. Has she ever gotten pregnant before? How far along is she? Can you go off of all your meds now? I would be feeling EXACTLY how you feel if I were you sweetie. WOW! But I am happy for them, of course!

DavezWife · June 2011

I get EVERY ounce of your flabbergastness.

holy

chit.

readyin07 · June 2011

Whoa. Not what I expected to see. I don't remember - and it's possible you can't say - but what were their original IF issues? That is crazy. Have they been trying or was it "accidental"? Wow. I don't even know what to say after all you have been through.

MyColonyNJ · June 2011

Are they using donor eggs as well? Or is this a FET? I guess I am confused. I guess I am thinking that if they were using her own eggs that she would have been stimming and would have known she was pregnant.

Can she still go forward with the transfer? You know, putting your eggs in two baskets.

MrsKolasa · June 2011

I just, um, well... huh.

I'm happy for them, but I'd be feeling the same way you are right now. Wowie.

Mrs.Reem · June 2011

Nope. They supposedly just had sex the old fashioned way. 6 weeks along. Transfer is off.

Spockles · June 2011

Wow! I missed your original post, but can kinda get the drift from these posts. lol... how far along is she?

dana316 · June 2011

Wow. I didn't get her until you DD'd, but I'm slowly getting up to speed.

Holy sh!t. I don't know what else to say.

Magoy · June 2011

Whaaaat????!!?? I didn't see the original post. I know you must be terribly frustrated with this whole process ... Yet at the same time, happy they might finally get their baby. What a mixed bag of emotions. I still think you are AMAZING for what you tried so hard to do for them. I hope they never forget that!!

crystalgirl · June 2011

Holy crap!!! I want details, but since you DD'd, I'm guessing I shouldn't be nosey.

Totally hope it works out for them! I can't believe it!!!

LoveMyGirlz · June 2011

I was wondering how you're feeling about it. I started writing too much on your fb post, so ran here! So mixed feelings? obviously excited for her, but everything was such a sacrifice for you and your family. But, that's great. Oh I don't know... just amazing really. I just hope you're feeling good and processing all this and go ahead and feel whatever you need to feel.

alchris · June 2011

I'm very curious about what you said before, but I think the news is here! I really hope they are just as appreciative of you as they should be; you really devoted SO much to them. And I hope that you still give yourself the kudos too, that you can smile. I'm so sorry though -- I can only imagine the extreme emotions you must be feeling, A. Wow.

crystalgirl · June 2011

Yeah, I don't think my response was very clear...I was just so shocked!

Anything you're feeling is completely valid. You have done so so much. I hope you feel good about that, but of course, I don't know how things went down with them. This news is just crazy...

erin5407 · June 2011

Wow. Great for them that they are getting their baby but I can't imagine the range of emotions you are going through after the last several months and all you have put your body through. What a generous thing you were willing to do for them... I hope they truly appreciate everything you have been through. Hugs!

Mrs.Reem · June 2011

Thanks

um... I'm feeling 100,000 different emotions. None of which I could adequately articulate at this moment.

In the end, all that matters is that they reach their goal.

pandabearlover · June 2011

I can see where you are coming from and the range of emotions you must be feeling. Hugs

You can message me on FB if you need to get anything out. wink wink

gabbeyh · June 2011

Whoa! I missed your first post but wow. Is she able to carry a baby?

flbeachcouple · June 2011

Mrs.Reem:

In the end, all that matters is that they reach their goal.

You have so much class. You have been through so much for them. I wish them well and you too.

flbeachcouple · June 2011

Mrs.Reem:

In the end, all that matters is that they reach their goal.

You have so much class. You have been through so much for them. I wish them well and you too.

emmyloustu · June 2011

Whhhhhaaatttttttt????????

WOWWOWOWOWOW!!!!!

I am having 100 different emotions so I cannot even imagine what you must be feeling.

Many T&Ps for K and you too!

Please don't hesitate to reach out if you need to talk!

((((((HUGS)))))))))

browneyedgrl4282 · June 2011

HOLY CRAP!

ALY1981 · June 2011

Holy crap!

armywife76 · June 2011

OMG. Picking my jaw up off the floor now. Holy crap! ((hugs, honey))

sweetpea18 · June 2011

Umm...wow? I don't know what else to say!

kittylove · June 2011

I didn't see the first post. But no matter how you are feeling it is valid. You have been through so much, put your body through so much and this I am sure is hard. Please know our thoughts are with you and with K. We are so happy for her even though this wasn't exactly how we thought it would happen. It is wonderful that she gets to have this and I wish her a happy and helathy 9 months.

nicolita14w · June 2011

Wow! I missed the OP. That's great news for her, but I'm sure it must bring up some mixed emotions for you. Hang in there.

emiannie · June 2011

I saw your post on your blog and I wondered how you felt deep down because my heart sank for you when I read it. I am thrilled for them of course to get to experience it themselves, but sweet Jesus you've put yourself through hell for them and were essentially going through the infertility rollercoaster FOR them month after month.

Anyway, much love and many hugs to you, A. Whatever you're feeling is valid...just feel it all.

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