Then a couple of weeks ago our agency informed us
that they
were no longer accepting new families into their domestic program and
would be
eventually closing the program altogether when all of the current
waiting
families were matched. I don't want to go into more detail than that
except to say their international program will stay active.
Ever since this news, I?ve been wavering back and forth about cutting our losses and possibly moving on to work with another agency or a consultant. I am the first to admit that I?ve not been the most patient person during this whole thing and I know that there are people who?ve been waiting way longer for their child to come to them. But if the amount of birth mom?s that our agency is seeing is dwindling more and more?I don?t know. I would hate to start all over and then have it be another year, but then I read the recent post about all of you who?ve had such great experiences with consultants (I've been lurking more than posting lately) and it makes me wonder.
I know that the decision is ultimately ours, but if anyone has any insight or advice, I?d really appreciate it? (PM if you?d like).
TIA
Re: I desperately need some advice?
That's a tough situation. I can understand your concern that there aren't many expectant mothers contacting your agency. If it were us, we wouldn't be able to afford to cut our losses and go with another agency.
Are you doing any of your own personal networking aside from what the agency is doing for you? I know that a lot of successful matches come through networking.
Good luck!
Why not work with a consultant in addition to your current agency?
We had a fantastic experience with our consultant, but if you have already jumped through all of the hoops with this specific agency and are ready for a placement, I'd hate to just walk away from that. With a consultant, the bulk of the money isn't due until a match. So if you work with both and end up matching through your current agency, you are only out the consultant's fee (which is usually around $2,000 or so).
I am sending you a PM.