TTC After a Loss

My horrible crappy no good day.

1. CD1
2. I'm wearing my brand new light colored underwear.
3. I was stuck in meetings so no time to get to the bathroom.
4. Ruined new underwear.
5. Boss basically told me that I wouldn't get much of a pay increase in the new posistion they are creating for me and if I want more money I should just find a different job.
6. Boss also told me that if co-worker knew how to do something, I just just ask him how to do it rather than learn how to do it on my own.
7.  Boss then threatened to ask IT to look into my internet useage, even though I'm getting my work done, so I guess no more bumping at work.

I'm honestly most upset about #7.  Crying

Now that I've said it, it's all gonna go away right?  Anyone have a good resume site to recommend?

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  • Well yuck. I'd punch your boss in the kidneys for you, but I don't think it would help.

    Here's to hoping a great job opportunity presents itself very soon!


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  • Oh hun! I am so sorry. ((hugs)) I hope tomorrow is better.


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  • *hugs* Oh, honey, that does sound like a crappy day!!!  Why does it always seem to happen on CD1...the worst day possible!?!  I think you need a glass of wine!!!

    Regarding resume sites, are you just looking to create/update yours?  I personally just type in to google what I'm looking for.  Then I'll pull up 3 or 4 different example resumes and combine/manipulate the wording use the Microsoft Word templates.  I'm in the process of updating mine as well.

    I hope you have a better night, lovey!!!  Sending lots of good juju your way! 

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  • I'm sorry you're having such a bad day!!!!!! I'd be really upset about #7 as well...if you're getting your work done, that's all that should matter.

    I don't know of a good resume site, but I'm decent at making resumes if you'd like me to look at yours and give you some tips.

    Hugs!

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  • Sad Stupid CD1 and boo to ruining new light colored underwear!

    Sorry you had a sh!tty day at work.  HUG

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  • I'm so sorry that your day was very, sh!tty.  Careerbuilder.com always helped me find a new job.

    Good luck and I hope that your day is better tomorrow!

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    Dude, if my employer ever decided to look into my internet usage I would be fvcked.  I always have the bump up, even when I'm working on other stuff...  maybe I should be more careful...

    I think you deserve to buy a new pair of cute undies.  Also, I've found Oxy Clean does a pretty decent job getting those types of stains out.  Not completely, but hopefully better than nothing.

    Hoping your weekend gets here quickly!!!!!! 


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    I'm sorry you're having such a bad day!!!!!! I'd be really upset about #7 as well...if you're getting your work done, that's all that should matter.

    I don't know of a good resume site, but I'm decent at making resumes if you'd like me to look at yours and give you some tips.

    Hugs!

    I might have to take you up on this!

    johnny's june - I really need to write it from scratch.  I've been at my job for almost 8 years and haven't updated my resume since I got the job.  Needless to say, I need to start from scratch because back then I was like, I can type 80 wpm and now I am pretty much a SQL programmer and Crystal Reports expert.  (All of this self taught.)  Thanks for the google tip.

    I have a guy that used to work with me offer to get me in touch with his head hunter.

    ETA: I love how you ladies make me feel better when I'm having a craptastic day!  Thank you all so much!  You have no idea how much your support means to me.

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  • Well poo on your boss...pfffftttt!

    Your post answered my question from my PM to you.  So sorry about your undies getting ruined.  I hate when that happens. 

    I hope you have a better evening and a better day tomorrow!

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  • Blah to all of that! The only good thing is that with CD1 you are officially TTC now right? That is good news I guess.
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  • I'm so sorry you had such a craptastic day at work!

    When I was looking for a job I use to check craigslist and I landed a few interviews that way. GL to you!

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  • *ginormous hug*I'm sorry you had such a craptastic day!
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    Blah to all of that! The only good thing is that with CD1 you are officially TTC now right? That is good news I guess.

    Not quite.  I have my last HCG check on Thursday and when that comes back negative, I will be back in the saddle!

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  • Boo to everything except possible being back on the TTC train!....

    I'm sorry JK... your boss must also have been starting his/her period today it seems.  I hope things turn around for you... if you are seriously interested in finding a new job, just find a recruiting firm (depending on what you do)... they'll help you with your resume.


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  • Hugs to you, pour yourself a nice big glass of wine tonight :)

    Career wise...are you on LinkedIn.  It's a porfessional networking site.  you create an account, then stalk everyone you know (preferrably the professional ones) and link to them....connect and see who is hiring.  Beware - other employees at your job can see your info if you make it public and connect with them...info like "looking for new career."  GL sweets!

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  • I am so sorry :( I hope your Friday is much, much better!!!!!

    I can't bump at work- working in an elementary school and having 25 little 5 year olds popping up unexpectedly... boo. 

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    This. Sorry you had a bad day!  

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    I'm so sorry you're having an awful day! It always seems to happen all at once, and especially on CD1 :(  Big, squeezy ((hugs)) to you! Have a glass of red wine and I hope that your day gets much better tomorrow...or that at least your boss is sick at home so you don't have to deal with him.
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    BOO!! What a sucky day!  I hope the rest of your week is wonderful!!! Right Hug
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  • I'm so sorry. That's definitely a rough day. Have one of these....Drinks ((hugs)).
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  • What a bunch of BS! I'm sorry J and I hope that something else comes up soon.... I would just google resume examples and see if you can find something.

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  • I'm so sorry you had such a crappy day :( 
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  • I'm so sorry for your horrible day - I work in HR as a Recruiter and see 100s of resumes everyday. If you'd like any help just send me a PM! 
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