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walk of shame

blm432blm432
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Got to go for a recheck in the morning to see if I will need a D&C. The thought of doing the walk of shame through the waiting room is almost enough to make me cancel. I know there is no shame, but that is what it feels like to me walking through a waiting room of smiling ,happy pregnant women.  I just want it to be over!!!!
DD 11,m/c 2/01 5 wks,DS 9, DS 2,DS 1,slow agonizing mmc followed by d&c 6/20/11 @ 11 wks & 1 day
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  • yogiwannabmomyogiwannabmom
    So sorry. I know how hard it is to go through that waiting room.
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  • DancingWarriorUSMCDancingWarriorUSMC member

    I'm right there with you. I HATE being around all those happy pregnant women.

    I mean, I totally get it. I WAS one of those women at one point. But every time I see a pregnant girl, or someone with a new baby, or walk by the baby department at the store... my heart sinks. 

    BFP 1: 3/25/11 -- m/c: 4/21/11 @ 9w 2d

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  • Ugly Dog JojoUgly Dog Jojo member
    I totally understand. Last week when I had to go back to the office the receptionist said, "Weren't you just here?" After I told her yes she said "oh I hope you're frequently here for good reasons" Haha, right!
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  • sweepie412sweepie412
    This sucked for me too. Hugs to you and T&P for tomorrow. 
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    DD born 4/3/10 BFP 4/9/11 missed mc @10w4d- forever loved
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  • just jenkingjust jenking
    I hate that walk! yesterday when I went in and got the news on the U/S that we lost the baby thankfully they took us to an exam room without us having to go back to the waiting room. When we left though we did have to go through the waiting room. I counted 7 pregnant women in the waiting room. It was so hard! I have to go back once a week until my hcg level is back to 0. It is going to be tough!
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  • hungryhippohungryhippo member

    imageyogiwannabmom:
    So sorry. I know how hard it is to go through that waiting room.

    This exactly. I'm so sorry, Hugs. 

    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
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  • wachswachs
    I felt that way today at our appointment. They have baby pictures all over and all these women smiling with their huge bumps and it took all i had not to just cry.
    "Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap and tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap and tell them about me?" DD 9/22/03 Our little sassypants! DS 4/10/10 My little man is growing so fast
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