Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

Cute clothes to daycare?

I don't mean like, really nice stuff, but cute things you really like - do you send your LO to daycare in them?  I've sent bibs and they say they use them but without fail, they always have some sort of berry or berry juice on days he's wearing an outfit I really like.  I've gotten it out of some stuff but not others.  DH told me it stresses him out trying to choose an outfit (he gets him ready in the morning) because he knows I've been getting PO'd at brand new stuff getting ruined haha

My issue is that anything Aiden has that I DON'T really like, well, I don't like it haha  I hate sending him to daycare in all boring plain onesies/tshirts because that's where he spends his time so if doesn't wear his cute stuff during the week he may never wear it.  I can't make myself happy :-p 

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Re: Cute clothes to daycare?

  • Yea, I send him in his cute things.  They are awesome at keeping him clean. I have no idea how they do it. I even seen him eating there with a spoon and no bib and he still comes home spotless. I swear they wash their clothes while they sleep...

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  • I wouldn't put either of my sons in any clothes that I would care if it got a stain on it to go to daycare in.  Seriously, if you have clothes that aren't your favorite then use those for daycare....because you aren't going to give damn if it gets berry juice on it that won't come out.

    If your husband dresses your child, set out the clothes the night before that YOU are ok with so he doesn't have to get stressed out about it.

  • We send him to school in everything except his nice white polos. We just avoid mostly white shirts in general. One thing that helps is that I sent in a Bumpkins bib that stays there and I bring it home on the weekends to wash. My kid is a messy eater. LOL  It doesn't save shirts from getting dirty, but they aren't as nasty as they could have been. If it's an especially messy meal, they will take Jake's shirt off.

    For laundry, Shout's Advanced Gel works really, really well. It's gotten everything out, and I can wash with it and it doesn't irritate his skin.

  • Not the really expensive stuff - like her Janie and Jack outfits.  But, I have no choice but to send her in some clothes that I like.  And some of it does get ruined.  For that matter, some of her stuff gets ruined at home too.  They're toddlers, it happens.

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  • I don't have any answers, but I'm feeling the exact same way!!  We've had some issues wiht some "judgey" moms at day care, so I always try to make sure he looks extra cute, but they're coming home covered in food. It's very frustrating. The best thing I can say is I've found baby oxyclean to be very effective in getting out stains. GL
  • I almost always send him in what I consider play clothes...clothes that I don't care if they get stained etc...and they do, DS is a MESSY eater, bibs are no match for his level of chaos. I also only choose to send him in clothes that are easy on/easy off. So, no bib overalls or items with more than a couple of buttons (and they have to be the snap-type).
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  • Yeah, I send him in cute clothes.  Oh well if he comes home a mess. :)
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    Not the really expensive stuff - like her Janie and Jack outfits.  But, I have no choice but to send her in some clothes that I like.  And some of it does get ruined.  For that matter, some of her stuff gets ruined at home too.  They're toddlers, it happens.

    This.  I have a few outfits I'll put aside for "at home only," but to be honest she often ends up ruining those as well.

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    I don't have any answers, but I'm feeling the exact same way!!  We've had some issues wiht some "judgey" moms at day care, so I always try to make sure he looks extra cute, but they're coming home covered in food. It's very frustrating. The best thing I can say is I've found baby oxyclean to be very effective in getting out stains. GL

    LMAO. No way would I ever dress my kid according to what other moms thought. That's f'ing hillarious.

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  • I send her in cute stuff. I used to not when she was a baby & would spit up on it all day, explode a diaper on it, or get pureed carrots all over it, but she's not so messy anymore. Plus we don't have very many non-cute items anymore since I have purchased most of her wardrobe myself verses received it from baby showers etc. But I also don't send her with lunch foods that would stain.
  • DD is almost 3 and I can count on 1 hand the things that have been truly ruined beyond all salvation, and most of those have been due to major incidents like a stomach virus (no need to share all the details, but you can imagine).

    My point is, it's a risk I am willing to take. Oxiclean does a great job with most stuff. The only things that would truly upset me if they were ruined beyond repair are sentimental things like dresses I wore as a baby or that my now-deceased grandmother made, so those things really only come out for very special occasions.

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  • If it bothers you that much, but you still want him to wear "cute" stuff for daycare, go to garage sales and consignment stores and spend next to nothing on some nice looking used clothes just for daycare (try and go for dark colors if you think you'll even worry about those staining). 

    That said, a mix of powdered Oxyclean and liquid laundry detergent, and a good scrub brush, will get just about any stain out of anything. 

  • I buy Tegan outfits, specifically for daycare. I don't spend much on any of Tegan's clothes (you can get such cute stuff, for very little money), but her daycare clothes are definitely the cheapest of her clothing options. All of her clothes are cute, I'm pretty adament that Tegan be dressed cute and stylish, mainly because I really enjoy dressing her that way. If she has a special dress or outfit that I buy for a specific outing, church, event, etc. and I would be upset that if it got ruined at daycare, then she doesn't wear it to daycare. For example, it was so tempting to send her in her beautiful Easter dress on the they were doing a school Easter egg hunt, but I didn't because I knew I'd be upset if something happened to the dress.

    A lot of Tegan's daycare stuff comes from the $3-5 a piece racks that they have at Kohls, Carters, Children's Place, Osh Kosh and Target. All of these items hold up pretty well in the wash and seem to very easily come clean when they do get stains.

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  • Oh yes, and I lay out Tegan's clothes for the week every Sunday evening. I used to do it because I didn't like having to think about her outfit in the morning or even the night before (I'm way too obsessive...), but now that school's out (I'm a teacher) I figured I'd just decide what she was going to wear whenever it came time to dress her.

    Well, apparently, I'm a pretty major control freak because there was a morning or two when DH dressed Tegan and I did not like the combinations that he chose, lol! So, now I'm still laying out her clothes for the week, on Sunday evening. Now it doesn't matter who dresses her in the morning, because I know I'll approve of her outfit, lol!

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  • I do this too. I don't lay them out though, I just separate them in her closet. hehe
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    Yeah, I send him in cute clothes.  Oh well if he comes home a mess. :)

    This is also my attitude about it. If she doesn't wear them to daycare, she'll never wear them, and, really, who cares if they end up with a few stains? It's not like she's going to wear them forever anyway.  

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  • I agree. On some weekend days, we don't even leave the house, so Jake is just in knit shorts and tank tops. I don't really need to "save" his cute clothes for anything.
  • meh, I don't care. My MIL said she had special clothes for daycare. I don't. I know DD doesn't notice, but I do. She will be dressed with clothes I like, I mean non expensive.
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  • We're more concerned with skinned knees. All of her 'cute stuff' outfits are dresses. After she came home with her third skinned knee from outdoor play we decided dresses are for home, jeans are for school. Now that it's summer, I feel bad dressing her in long pants, but I can't send her in shorts for the same reason as the dresses.
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  • I send dd to daycare in clothes that can get messy.  You can buy inexpensive things - such as clothes at Target - if you're worried about ruining the better things.

    We've messed up some of her clothes on our own here at home, so I can't possibly get upset with her babysitter if she gets something on her clothes there.

     

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  • I have a few outfits I save for at home (mostly 'nicer' things for going to bday parties, special occasions, whatever) and I try to avoid white shirts at DC like others have said. I have had one shirt ruined for each kid from 'washable' purple/blue paint- the darker colors are not so washable apparently. But I said something to htem & they said they'd try to make sure they're really covered up when they paint in thefuture. Well the other day DD was wearing a purple shirt & I pickedher up & it was totally wet & they said she got purple paint on it & they tried to rinse it...I can't see any evidence of it after washing so it's all good.

    I also look at the lunch menu & dress accordingly- if it is a day that involves some sort of marinara/tomato sauce, I try to avoid light colors.  

  • I tend to send him in the clothes that are more worn or not quite as cute because he can get pretty messy there some days.




  • My mom watches DD full time and I truly think my mom is uniquely gifted at ruining baby clothes. I go through a lot of Oxy-clean, but there are a lot of shirts that I have never been able to get clean and too many pants with greasy looking spots to count. I hate bugging my mom about trying to keep her clean, so I send DD to my mom's in stuff that I got as hand me downs, stuff from consignment shops and my stash of Kohls Jumping Beans tops and bottoms. I avoid white at all costs. I keep cute stuff for evenings (seriously, she's so dirty half of the time I change her when we get home) or for the weekends. Also, I pick out DDs clothes the night before and lay them out. I even hate having to mess with picking out outfits in the mornings, so I can imagine that your DH despises it.
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  • I'm in the "if he doesn't wear it to daycare, when will he wear it?" camp.  Many of his outfits do come back stained, and sometimes the stains don't come out - but I never pay full price for his clothes anyway, so it's not that big a deal.  It's always either sales racks at BRU or Target or else consignment stores.
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  • Yes I always make sure Noah is dressed cute for daycare.  And by cute I mean a $10 outfit from Carters.  They are kids.  They are going to find a way to get their dirty.  Nothing we can do about it. 
  • What I usually do is let her wear the nicer items once or twice out with us to eat or whatever, and then she wears them to DC. Even if she's going to DC, I don't want my kid looking like a slob. I think the only things that were stained were items she wore when she was an infant, not really anything now.

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  • I send the kids in playclothes (i.e. ones that were not expensive), but I make sure they are cute!  Walmart actually has some cute things in the Garanamals line, if you look hard enough.

    As for stains, I use Shout spray, and regular Oxiclean to soak, and everything has come out, so far! 

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