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Cheating dreams anyone?

emilyj77emilyj77 member
in November 2011 Moms

Is any one else having dreams that DH is cheating on you? I had a very real one this past weekend! Of course this was after I called DH in his truck, he answered on his blue tooth speaker phone so the whole car full of his co-workers could hear our conversation. I said Hi, he said Who is this? I said Your Wife! then I heard a woman laugh in the background. So I was jealous of that. Could be why I had the cheating dream over the weekend. The dream consisted of DH's co-worker trying to steal him away from me and DH being oblivious to her actions. I went off on her in my dream and got so mad!

I told DH about the dream but he didn't seem to really care.

Anyone else?

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  • ErinGoBragh77ErinGoBragh77 member
    I had a dream last night that a woman at a bar asked my husband to kiss her, and I was sitting right there.  I also went off on her, but it didn't phase him at all that she wanted to kiss him.  I also woke up feeling guilty because I drank an entire beer (regular Budweiser, which I never drink anyway!).
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  • jseaton61jseaton61 member

    i had one a few weeks ago. my husband is a teacher and very good looking if i do say so myself and only about 10yrs older than most of his students.. and i had a dream he was having an affair with a student and i was pregnant. in my dream, i caught him making out with her on his desk when i came to surprise him with lunch. i flipped out and headed straight to the bank and withdrew all our money and emptied our safe of all cash and changed the locks on the doors.

    when i told him about my dream we both had a good laugh! i think the dream was brought on by the movie we had watched that night before bed.

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  • MrzHozMrzHoz member

    I haven't had a dream that my husband was cheating on me, but I have had a dream that I was married to Bradley Cooper who I happen to have a big crush on.

    In my dream , the chemistry( ahem) was great between us and then I took to hang out with my family and he was playing with my nieces and getting along really well with them

    And then I woke up...

    However, I have had 3 dreams so far where I had to God forbid put back the pieces by myself bc DH and I were no longer together for whatever reason. I think this stems back to the fact that I was with my hs sweetheart for 8 years and we had a horrible falling out and I had to rebuild my entire life after that.I hope I never ever have to go through that again.

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  • BTIP10BTIP10
    I've had dreams where I've cheated on DH! But in normal, awake senses it was NOT cheating. I would be talking to a guy I went to HS with and that's how I cheated. Nothing physical it was just being around other guys... really strange. I also "cheated" this way with my brother... yeah....
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  • jac1110jac1110
    I've had dreams that DH cheated on me, and I woke up mad at him. AND I've had dreams where I cheated on DH and woke up feeling guilty and like I had to tell him.
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  • mcintyr1mcintyr1
    I've had several dreams where i meet someone else and we want to start dating, but before anything happens i insist that we have to find my husband and ask him if it's okay. Inevitably i never find him, lol.
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  • emilyj77emilyj77 member

    Ahh...it feels so good to know I'm not alone!

    According to BabyCenter, cheating dreams in the 2nd trimester are common:

    "Sometimes, an expectant mother finds herself tortured by nightmares that her husband is having a love affair. Or she may picture strange women propositioning her man. Such dreams also express a sense of insecurity about holding the husband's love and attention through a time of great change. A pregnant woman has a realistic sense of vulnerability. She is more dependent than ever upon the goodwill and support of those around her, especially her husband. She may fear his loss."

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  • spacey281spacey281 member
    I had two in the first trimester that were so vivid I felt horrible all day even though they were ridiculous.  I trust my hubs completely, and in reality he is too oblivious to ever have an affair.  The woman would literally have to show up in his car or at work naked with a sign on her chest that says "Let's have sex" for him to even know she was interested in him.  He doesn't even check other women out, which I find truly bizarre because even I do that.
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  • CheriCOCheriCO
    Interesting.  I haven't had any dreams recently where DH has cheated on me, but I've had plenty where I cheated on him (in the dream it wasn't cheating, I was just with the guy & DH was not in the picture at all) and I haven't really felt too guilty when I wake up from them.  The guys usually aren't people I know IRL or even celebrities, just random made up dudes, I guess.  Tho there was that yummy one with "Sawyer" from Lost a few weeks back... 
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  • angruzangruz
    I also, haven't had any dreams where DH is cheating but have had dreams where I'm cheating on him, sex, with a friend from high school or a celebrity.  In the dreams, I feel so turned on that it can't wait until I see my husband.  I end up feeling slightly guilty.  Weird, i know.    
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  • alyss0nlalyss0nl member

    I had an awful dream where I cheated on DH with someone I work with. Ew, no thanks. Only because DH was cheating on me with some random girl he met at a bar. In the dream I happened to walk in to the bar where he was shooting pool with his friends, and this chick was all over him. So to spite him, I guess I turned around and cheated on him.

    So weird. I told DH and he laughed and said, "ahh how did you know" real jokster

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  • jenni888jenni888 member

    imageangruz:
    I also, haven't had any dreams where DH is cheating but have had dreams where I'm cheating on him, sex, with a friend from high school or a celebrity.  In the dreams, I feel so turned on that it can't wait until I see my husband.  I end up feeling slightly guilty.  Weird, i know.    

    Same. Usually with exes. I wake up and think *phew* it was just a dream!  

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  • Vieve831Vieve831 member
    I've also had a lot of cheating dreams since becoming pregnant! Mostly its me cheating and similar to PP's I'm either single in my dreams or the act in my dream is not really cheating but I feel super guilty about it. I've also had dreams where DH and I are not together anymore but still in love and its hard to be apart. My dreams are definitely more guilt over insecurity but I've had both feelings.
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  • evanssjevanssj member

    imagejac1110:
    I've had dreams that DH cheated on me, and I woke up mad at him. AND I've had dreams where I cheated on DH and woke up feeling guilty and like I had to tell him.

    Me too! My dreams have been so crazy these past 4 months!

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  • MrsCaddyshackMrsCaddyshack member

    Two nights ago I had a dream that my husband was having sex with another woman in front of me. It was practically pornography.

    Kinda happy to know it's not just me having crazy dreams about cheating.

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  • mayabethmayabeth
    Like many other pp's I have had dreams where I have cheated on DH (and woken up feeling absolutely awful) but none where he has cheated on me. So strange-I love DH so much and would never even THINK about it, but pregnancy has given me some super strange dreams/nightmares.
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  • sarahjames9sarahjames9 member
    I have definitely had x-rated dreams about cheating-mostly me with exes! So embarrassing!
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