DD has severe reflux. Our Pedi GI has prepped us to have the mindset for a long haul, approximately 2 years. She also suffered from severe gastric pain and had a touch of delayed gastric emptying. She also could have been colicly but who knows when you have all the above. The first few months, bedtime was hell. I would walk/rock/bounce her for an hour or two after her bottle until she fell asleep and then I would wait a bit and finally put her in the crib. Now, life is a bit easier but recently her sleep has regressed and she has started waking up at night. I am not sure if this is reflux related or what. I currently bottle feed, rock, she falls asleep, I keep her in my arms for about 45 mins after bottle and then transfer to crib.
Do you feed, keep your baby up, and then let them put themselves asleep in their crib? Do you rock to sleep and then transfer? And if you do put them in crib drowsy but awake do they toss and turn and then spit up from all the movement?
I think I am using the reflux as a reason not to sleep train but I am really not sure if there is a better way then how we are doing it.
Re: Reflux babies and bedtime question
How old is she???
Have you tried the Rock N Play sleeper?? It was literally a lifesaver for us (DS2 had severe reflux also...) and he slept in it until he was 7 months.
What kind of meds is she on? Did you recently make any changes that could be causing the sleep regression?
Have you tried a wedge to prop up her mattress?
Also, I actually found that it was much better if we fed DS2 a bit earlier before he went to bed so that way he had time to digest. Could you move up her last feed a bit so she isn't falling asleep right after you feed?
We had to avoid eating right before bed.
We followed the drowsy but awake program from very early on, because that is what worked well for us.
She did have to sleep elevated in a travel swing (approved by our pedi) until her reflux got better with age, and then we put her in her crib, elevated on one end.
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