TTC After a Loss

Anyone else not trying yet...

but don't want to be in the loss section anymore? I would love to try but my husband is not ready. I'm going to take the summer and try to lose some weight and reapproach the topic in the fall.

Just curious if anyone else isn't/can't try yet either...

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Re: Anyone else not trying yet...

  • Me! I just had my D&C on Tuesday. We are probably going to TTA for a while. But the MC/PL board was a huge downer, and was depressing me further. I'm glad to be here now. It has become a safe haven. And plus, I wanted to be a semi-established poster by the time we start TTCAL. :)
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  • Im tta until next month. Have been tta since my loss in late dec. It has been so hard but I've been trying to stay busy and the time has seem to go by fast.
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    My most recent loss was 3 weeks and 1 day ago. We are TTA for now. We have at least until my levels are down to 0 and then 6 weeks after that. I go again tomorrow for another draw tomorrow. Until I am at 0 we can't even practice :(. I was over here before my last loss and just skipped going over to mc/pl because after my first loss I was too depressed sticking around there but wasn't ttc yet. So I took a long bump break. It is very depressing to stay around that board for a long period of time.

    Welcome to the board! We have many people who are TTA right now on the board

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  • I'm TTA for 2 more weeks.  I've been on monitoring for a possible molar pregnancy since my HCG levels got to 0 after my D&C which was in March.
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  • Hi!

    Welcome to the board. I am sorry for your loss. We have many women TTA right now. In fact I run a check in on Fridays. Love to see you there.

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  • Me!  I'll be trying in October at the earliest.  I would love to try again now, but I have to wait until I'm cleared by my oncologist.  I don't want to wish the summer away, but I sure do hope fall gets here quickly!
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    BFP #2: 12/30/11. EDD 09/11/12. MC 01/04/12. I love you always.


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    Me! We aren't trying until Sept!
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  • There are a lot of TTA ladies around, it can be nice to be in a slightly less depressing place. (No bad vibes to be sent to MC/PL...but it can wear down the soul to see loss stories every day...god bless each one of them)
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  • I wish I knew when we were going to try again. Dr gave me the okay 6 months ago but my husband just isn't ready yet. I really hope he finds the strength to give it another try by the end of the year. Cross your fingers!!! In the meantime I am going to focus on our marriage, our budget and losing some weight!!!!!
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  • I remember you from the loss board. I'm sorry for your loss.  I'm TTA until August, doctor's orders.  I still post for support in the loss section, but I've been on this board for a few weeks now.  There are 2 weekly TTA check-ins: one for those TTA less than 6 months, and one for 6 months+.  Feel free to join in on one of those. Welcome!
  • *raises hand* ME! I just got my first AF since my 2nd d&c after a missed m/c. We could try now but I want to have one full complete cycle before I give it a go. My boss, who miscarried the same exact time as me and had the same EDD tried too soon after a m/c in November of last year. It makes me feel like waiting an extra month is a good idea. DH and I have thought that August might be a good month for us to start TTC. 

     

     

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    but don't want to be in the loss section anymore? I would love to try but my husband is not ready. I'm going to take the summer and try to lose some weight and reapproach the topic in the fall.

    Just curious if anyone else isn't/can't try yet either...

    Mason is gorgeous! We are TTA for a few more cycles to finish healing from my d&c. Good luck to you

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    I'm TTA until at least August by Dr's orders. Whether or not DH will be ready then is another story...not sure. It all depends on what I get as far as a raise...
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