our doula is just starting out (we were her first birth) so she didn't charge us. she needs to attend a few in order to get certified. so understandably it was a win-win. she needs to build business/gain experience and we got to have a doula
but we want to pay her something or give her a nice gift or something....
DH wants to send her a check for $100-$150. a check seems so impersonal after such a personal experience
but at the same time, if i were in her shoes i'd certainly appreciate a check! so what do we do? spend more/less? she actually lives in Houston so she drove her twice (so gas money was spent), then was here for maybe 12 hours+ for the birth.
any gift ideas? i was thinking about ordering her some hand stamped jewelry or something rather than a check but I don't know... if its not her taste then it goes to waste!
Re: gift for our doula?
I would do a gift card to somewhere practical like Walmart, Amazon, or Target.
Jewelry is difficult to buy for someone unless you really know their taste.