Not sure what is worse (pg mentioned)

kasey9kahne · June 2011

I am about to poas in the morning and I can't decide if I am more worried about seeing a negative or a postitive. After having a chem pg I am scared to see that extra line again. I don't know if my DH and I can take another chem pg. I hope it is okay for me to ask you ladies for some T&P for me.

I know some of you ladies have experienced a loss. How did you deal with the next time it was time for you to test?

happilyeverafterxo · June 2011

I'm sorry I don't have any advice to offer, but I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers! Smile

mcgeeva · June 2011

I have no experience with this but I just want to say I hope you have a BFP. T&P's coming your way!

MsGMChick · June 2011

I was very nervous after my m/c but, while it's hard, you can do it! Good luck in the morning hun. T&P.

lindseyry · June 2011

It is so hard! I had a really hard time getting excited with my last bfp. Ill keep you in my T&P!

inlovewithB · June 2011

It is still really hard. After my miscarriage I am just not sure my body will ever be able to carry a pregnancy to term. Since the m/c we have had one failed IUI and one failed IVF and I was starting to feel like I couldn't emotionally handle going through another failed cycle or even worse another loss.

What gave me the strength to keep going was starting to pursue Adoption. I know most people CLOSE the IF door when they start the adoption process, but we decided to have all doors OPEN. We know we want at the very least two children and now that I feel like my WOMB isn't the only path that could bring us our baby I feel much more at peace with our upcoming cycle. (we are 100% ok with having adopted and biological baby at the same time)

mwlove · June 2011

Thoughts and prayers coming your way!

ChicagoWeded2007 · June 2011

i know how you feel, but it's been 1.5 years since my m/c and I am totally ready to see 2 lines now. Regardless, you can't get to the healthy baby part without the 2 lines at the begining, so I hope to get them, even if it is scary that you could lose it!

mrshurley10 · June 2011

i am right there with you on this one. the thought of going thru another m/c is .. well let me just say it brings me to tears quite often these days. i was one of those optomistic people who said i was going to have a happy healthy pregnancy. when i miscarried, it was like someone punched me in the back of the head. NEVER expected it. Anyways now im just affraid its all i will think about next time. I think we just need to try to be cautiously optomistic. Good luck to you