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I still have rage issue episodes

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And I know its from being so stressed, but I really wish they'd go away.  I get angry at H ALL the time over stupid things.  Lucky for our relationship, it's while he's asleep in the morning (DD's up by 6 usually and H by 7 on a work day) and I can suppress it enough to be cheery when he gets up.  I actually had one at the store because H was taking his time and not rushing around.  WTH, me!  I hope there's some chocolate that can cure this...my freezer stash hasn't been working.

On a good note, my rage gives me the energy to clean the house in a p-d off frenzy while H is at work lol Our living room is no longer junk-ridden!

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Re: I still have rage issue episodes

  • catycatecatycate member
    All this. In the mornings, I secretly fight with DH and then by the time he's up/home from work, I've managed to talk myself down. I think, for me, it has to do with accepting that, while DH is more than happy to help, he needs to be asked in a direct manner with specific tasks. As soon as I ask him, things are done, but I usually stew that I have to tell him to take out the trash (dude, it's every week. Same time, same place.) I'm actively trying to work on remembering that.
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    imagecatycate:
    DH is more than happy to help, he needs to be asked in a direct manner with specific tasks. As soon as I ask him, things are done, but I usually stew that I have to tell him to take out the trash (dude, it's every week. Same time, same place.) 

     This!!!!  Why is it that I can figure out things that need to be done but H has to be asked??!!??  I will never understand, makes me wonder what the house would look like if I waiting to be asked to do all that I do...


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    imageMnM217:

    imagecatycate:
    DH is more than happy to help, he needs to be asked in a direct manner with specific tasks. As soon as I ask him, things are done, but I usually stew that I have to tell him to take out the trash (dude, it's every week. Same time, same place.) 

     This!!!!  Why is it that I can figure out things that need to be done but H has to be asked??!!??  I will never understand, makes me wonder what the house would look like if I waiting to be asked to do all that I do...

    Exactly! Only I did let the house go and it was TERRIBLE! H only took out the trash today because it was A) piled up twice the trash can's height and B) he knew I was in a bad mood because I didn't get a bubble bath due to him going to his friend's house.  And H will also wear dirty clothes to WORK if I don't wash them!  I have two children, I swear lol

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