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ambs21ambs21 member
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Today was my tentatively scheduled c-section date for my twins.  I've stayed busy and had fun today with DD, but, now that she's napping, I am feeling very sad about what should have been happening today.  Sorry to AW, but I could use the extra hugs.  I know you ladies understand the difficulty of EDDs.  Thanks for letting me lean on you all today!
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  • Manderlin923Manderlin923 member

    I'm so sorry :( I understand completely- my EDD is coming up this July 4th (yay). I'm planning on staying as busy as possible but taking a special moment out to remember my babies (one lost on that day, one due on that date)

    HUGS and just know we are here for you. Maybe do something nice to commemerate this day (I know I spelled that way wrong) like say a prayer or plant a tree today in their honor? I don't know. Hope you feel better soon.

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  • jertiejertie member
    ((HUGS))  I'm so sorry - EDDs are really hard.  They're bittersweet b/c you had been looking forward to the day for so long - then it just becomes so sad after the joy doesn't happen.  I hope that you can keep yourself busy and know that I'm sending you tons of good vibes.  ((More HUGS))

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  • Karen1998Karen1998 member
    Big (((((hugs)))))).
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
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  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis
    I'm so sorry sweetie.  I know how hard today is for you.  It almost seems worse with twins because there is the C-section date and the real EDD (at least that's how it was for me).  Take care of yourself today.  ((Big HUGS))
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    BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
    BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
    BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12

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  • MsPegeesMsPegees
    ((HUGS))  EDD's are hard.  Hope the day goes by quickly for you.
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  • ambs21ambs21 member

    imageEris-Alexis:
    I'm so sorry sweetie.  I know how hard today is for you.  It almost seems worse with twins because there is the C-section date and the real EDD (at least that's how it was for me).  Take care of yourself today.  ((Big HUGS))

    Yes, and I had 2 different EDDs (it got changed).  I think this whole month will be pretty rough.

    Thank you all for your support and hugs.  I am so thankful for this pregnancy, but I am still so sad about my losses.  I know you ladies understand.  Thanks again for your responses.

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  • opalloveropallover
    *HUGS* I'm glad you are trying to stay busy. I know it can be so hard.
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  • karma79karma79 member
    Big hug! U r totally allowed to feel down today. Take care of urself!
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  • OatoaOatoa member
    My EDD just passed too so I know how you feel.  Hugs to you and I hope tomorrow is easier.

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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    ((HUGS))

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

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  • anonomityanonomity
    I'm so sorry.  These milestones are so hard.  ((HUGS))
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    Chemical pregnancies 12/2/10, 1/3/11, and 2/7/11.
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  • iggy.diggy.d member
    I'm sorry. (((hugs)))
    BFP#1 10/5/09 | Heartbeat 11/1/09 | D&C 11/24/09 (no hb)
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    (((HUGS)))
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  • itsmeginitsmegin
    It is really hard, I am so sorry you have to mourn what would have been today. (((HUGS)))
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  • StephK86StephK86
    You are not being an AW. I know how hard this day must be for you. I'm sorry that you lost your precious twins. HUGS and prayers for you.
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  • clausekaclauseka member
    I'm sorry.  That's really hard. Hugs to you today!
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  • ambs21ambs21 member
    Thank you all so much.  I can't tell you what it means to me to have your love and support.  I really appreciate it.
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  • haziedazehaziedaze member
    ((HUGE HUGS)) EDDs are so hard. Mine kind of blind sided me. I think being PGAL helped some, but it certainly doesn't take the pain away. I hope your DD wakes up to distract you some more!
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    Big hugs. EDDs are tough :-(

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    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

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  • HadleySHadleyS member
    (((hugs)))  I am so sorry about this difficult day.  I wish I would have seen this post yesterday, I hope you received plenty of support and comfort from the bump and from your DH.
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  • Froggy76Froggy76 member
    Huge ((HUGS)).  I hope you got through yesterday okay.
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  • StaceyM06StaceyM06
    Lots of big ((((HUGS))))
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  • celinegcelineg
    Big (((hugs))). I hope today is a better day.
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