We might be coming back to visit sooner than expected! We decided we
couldn't afford the trip back with DS this year since I am on maternity
leave for the year, so the ILs were going to come down to NZ to meet the
kiddo. But over skype yesterday, they offered to help pay for our
plane tickets to the USA instead, so that more of our friends/family
could meet DS. Fingers crossed that we can get it all organized, and it
isn't too expensive. We checked out prices last night and the prices
are insane

i am still optimistic.
Re: xp possible good news