My Aunt and MIL want to throw a Shower/Sprinkle for DD #2. I agreed, and they started planning, but now looking at my guest list (which was pretty small to begin with), it looks like there will only be about 7 people there (including the 4 people throwing it). I want to just tell them to forget about it, but I don't want to be rude.
WWYD?
Re: WWYD re Shower
Since they already started planning it I would probably let them go through with it. I may check in and ask how its going... if they give you a window to bail or make it more of a lunch type thing then I would bring it up then.
How about moving it to a restaurant? It would be easier on them, but you would still get together to celebrate DD#2.
I like the idea of moving it. I think it's so sweet of them to plan it. I'd just hate for them to spend a bunch of time planning it if there aren't going to be many people there.
I'll suggest the restaurant idea to my aunt and see what she says