Praying for good blessings... TTC

Hello everyone, I am new to the bump site too, and  I was wondering if there were any people on here in the Mpls/ St. Paul area?  Me and my new husband are TTC and trying to make it stress free.  Basically if it happens it happens, and if it doesn't it doesn't (at least for the first 6-12 months anyway).  We are not letting any family or friends know, we believe that would create added stress.  Meanwhile we are just trying to have fun, and enjoy what time we get with my new SS.  He is 7, and he is a wonderful little boy, full of energy and ideas and self entertaining, being that he just became a big brother a month ago.  BM had a second child, a boy.  Anyway, I feel like I could use a few "mothers" on here for some advice, so please write back if you feel inclined!