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made it through a few things (pg., baby ment.)

Well I made it through a couple events the last 2 days.  One - visited close family friend who I hadn't seen in a bit, who has a daughter 2 yrs younger than me, who is due around the time I was.   She of course was there as well and I just tried to look at her face and not her bump.  I thought it my head, that is how I would look, but just tried to focus on chit chat.   Think all was fine and not too weird.

Two - then at my friend's son's grad party last night, there was a gal there I know and she just had her baby, 1  mo. old.  I get handed the baby, as "you can practice".  At first I was like uh... then it was fine.  Kinda weird but all was ok.   I think maybe it had to do with my mindset of trying to just relax and let things be and not let myself get so stressed?  Plus I also feel like I had eyes on me from a few people that knew of my loss of "will she be ok", so, all in all I survived.      Now for some good wine and hot bath tonight, and cuddling with DH Smile

 Cheers ladies Drinks and cheers to optimism. 

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Re: made it through a few things (pg., baby ment.)

  • Yes optimism. cheers. ::raises glass of Pelligrino::

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  • Yay for you, glad you made it through those tough times.  I have a baby shower to get through on Sunday...then I should be all good for a bit..
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  • Great job!!! I'm sure it was tough but glad you took it well. Enjoy the bath and snuggle time. I think I'm going to put them on my agenda too :)
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  • Glad you made it through with such optimism. Sometimes having a good attitude going into a potentially bad situation can make all the difference.
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    you are a trooper! Drinks to optimism and to you!
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  • Things like that are definitely tough to get through.  Kudos to you!  Enjoy your relaxing evening!
  • Thanks ladies.  Smile I was nervous on both accounts, but glad I was able to get past it and hopefully this will ease some of my "upset-ness" moving forward.  Looking forward to hopefully a relaxing evening (once I figure out whats for dinner).  
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