Long story short-My son's pediatrician was 10 minutes away. We moved 5 months ago to another part of town and now it's a good 45-1 hr drive WITHOUT traffic. We've kept her up until this point because we love her, she's been his doc since Day 1 and we all seem to be on the same page.
Then again, I feel like having a doctor do far away is irresponsible. What happens if he gets a fever and we need antibiotics and it's pouring rain? What then? Drive one hour in the storm with a sick baby for a prescription and a check up?
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Re: Is having a pediatrician 45 min away irresponsible?
I wouldn't call it irresponsible, but I wouldn't want our pedi to be that far away. Our pedi is 5 minutes away (15 mins if traffic is really bad) and I love it that way. For me, personally, 45 mins would be too far.
ETA: I guess I should point out that Henry is a very sickly kid and we spend LOTS of time at the pedi office. If our history was that we only had to go in for well visits I might very well feel differently.
Not irresponsible but not ideal either. I would switch Drs but don't think you have to.
Our pedi is currently 20 minutes from our house. I can honestly say I would consider driving an hour to see him if we moved or he changed offices. We love him and I don't know that I'd be able to find anyone I'd trust as much.
It can't hurt to look around for a new pedi though... maybe you'll find one you love who is closer to you.
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Eh, we live in a mountain community. Ours is 45 minutes away, since everything just about is.
No big deal, but then again we've never gone for anything other than well baby visits.
I don't think it's a big deal. You wouldn't take a really sick baby to the pedi - you'd go to the closest ER or Children's Hospital. You'd take a somewhat sick kid to the pedi to be seen but unless your kid gets really frequent illnesses that require anti-b's - you shouldn't need to do this very often. So you'll make the 45 minute drive for regularly scheduled check-ups - and the hopefully very infrequent sick visit.
THAT SAID ... my pedi is literally 5 minutes away and I LOVE that - but part of that is due to us always flying around and almost being late - so being able to jump in the car at 8:55am and (almost, kind of) still make it on time to a 9am appointment - pretty much rocks.
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We had a pedi down the street from us (5 min walk) - and we hated them. So we switched to one that was about a 20 minute drive, and it was worth it to me to drive that far for her!
We just moved, and now we are 45min to 1hr away depending on traffic, and we did the drive this morning, which was pretty bad (and it was for DD's 1 year well baby check up). It might be really bad if we were going for a sick visit! But I did schedule her 15 month check up, and if we find someone else by then I will cancel. But to me, I need to trust the doctor, and that is worth the drive!
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