So we are thinking of ttc this fall. If I got pg in Sept DD would be 2 when #3 is born, and DS will be 3.5.....SO my question is; I know I can handle DD's adjustment as a 2 year old, but what will the older one's adjustment be like? What can I expect at 3.5 years old? Will he be jealous? or will he be used to having a sibling so it won't phase him much? I'm just curious if anyone can tell me how their older child reacted. I am debating waiting until January so he would be closer to 4....or would a few months matter? I guess I just don't want him to feel left out. I know DD will be fine, but he is a sensitive kid and becoming a lot more aware of his feelings.
Is the adjustment to #3 easier because your kids are already used to sharing Mommy's attention?
Thanks!
Re: Those with 3+ re: the oldest child adjusting
I thought 3 was harder logistically--getting in and out the car, using the carts at the grocery store, etc
My DD was 4.5 when her youngest brother was born. She adjusted well and it was completely fun (and she still talks about this) being able to go to the sibling class at the hosptial (ages 4 plus). At the same time, DS2 was born...my older two started fighting more and continue to do so...also my 2 year old was in a running phase making getting out very hard. It was hard to deal with boy terrible 2's (girls are different) at the same time as a NB. Luckily, my youngest son was a dream baby! Honestly, I think waiting longer would be easier. Would your 3 yr old be in preschool? Having DD in PreK made having 3 easier during the day. I always said the chaos started when she got home...