Just putting this out there for what it's worth. DH and I were struggling to decide if we wanted to adopt, use donor options, or live child free so we saw a psychologist who specializes in this kind of stuff. She gave us a ton of books, websites, etc. - these are the ones related to Child Free living"
Living Child Free Books
Carter, Jean W., and Carter, Michael. Sweet Grapes: How to Stop Being Infertile and Start Living Again. Perspectives Press, 1998.
Tsigdinos, Pamela Mahoney. Silent Sorority: A Barren Woman Gets Busy, Angry, Lost and Found. BookSurge Publishing, 2009.
Living Child Free Websites
Coming 2 Terms ? www.coming2terms.com
Childless Not By Choice (bulletin boards) ? www.childlessnotbychoice.com
Re: Living Child Free resources
I'm reading Sweet Grapes right now. It's a little outdated with the terms and such, but it's been helpful.
I'm Taking My Eggs and Going Home is next on my list.
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks