Trying to Get Pregnant

That one stung a bit

I expect to see baby announcements and what not on facebook, and I'm fine with those, but my work email is supposed to be a sanctuary.  Well I just got an email from a girl who I was friends with years ago saying that if I'm pregnant I can go get a free ultrasound.  Nothing like a little salt in the wound to start off my morning.  I'm tempted to respond and ask her if that includes ultrasounds to monitor my progress on my IF drugs. 

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FET currently on hold

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Re: That one stung a bit

  • What? Just a random "Hey if you need an ultrasound..." email? WTF is wrong with people. Yes I would respond.


     

    bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks

    bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks

    bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks

    bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p

    bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks

    bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks



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  • Oh no, I'm sorry.  Was it a chain email or a mass email or something? Either way, insensitive. 
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  • Do it! Please? Ugh.. I'm sorry that some people are so insensitive!
  • imageYa Never Know:
    Do it! Please? Ugh.. I'm sorry that some people are so insensitive!

    Seriously. Some people just need to know that they are full-fledged morons.



     

    bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks

    bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks

    bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks

    bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p

    bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks

    bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks



  • imagemelissa721:

    imageYa Never Know:
    Do it! Please? Ugh.. I'm sorry that some people are so insensitive!

    Seriously. Some people just need to know that they are full-fledged morons.

    Agreed. Just like my MIL. 


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  • Wow, that is super insensitive. I absolutely would email her back!
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  • Oh Btay, that is so random and heartless. It makes me feel stabby for you. GRRRR!!!
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  • Does she know you are TTC? That seems a little weird to just send a free offer. People are so rude.

    I'm sorry you had to deal with that. :(

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  • Oh my gosh BTay... I would definitely write back and find out why in the heck she sent that to me!
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  • imageAnoraStar:

    Does she know you are TTC? That seems a little weird to just send a free offer. People are so rude.

    I'm sorry you had to deal with that. :(

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    bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks

    bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks

    bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks

    bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p

    bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks

    bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks



  • imageTheAnne:
    Write back and tell her you give free testicular exams, just in case her husband needs one.

     

    Served. 



     

    bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks

    bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks

    bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks

    bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p

    bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks

    bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks



  • It looks like she just emailed everyone in her address book. 

    TTC since 2010

    lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs

    FET currently on hold

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  • imagemelissa721:
    imageAnoraStar:

    Does she know you are TTC? That seems a little weird to just send a free offer. People are so rude.

    I'm sorry you had to deal with that. :(

    "I will not steal her Snape badge.. I will not steal her Snape badge... I will not steal her Snape badge..." 

    haha!  I think the July siggy challenge has to be Harry Potter.      

    TTC since 2010

    lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs

    FET currently on hold

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  • imagemelissa721:
    What? Just a random "Hey if you need an ultrasound..." email? WTF is wrong with people. Yes I would respond.

    My thoughts exactly.  WTF 

  • imagebtaylor19:
    imagemelissa721:
    imageAnoraStar:

    Does she know you are TTC? That seems a little weird to just send a free offer. People are so rude.

    I'm sorry you had to deal with that. :(

    "I will not steal her Snape badge.. I will not steal her Snape badge... I will not steal her Snape badge..." 

    haha!  I think the July siggy challenge has to be Harry Potter.      

    Love this idea.

    PS: What a douche - that is NOT something you just send out to your whole address book.... 

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  • What a wench, she sucks end of story.
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  • wow. That is totally insensitive. What is wrong with people!? I'm sorry :( ((hugs))
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  • imagebtaylor19:
    imagemelissa721:
    imageAnoraStar:

    Does she know you are TTC? That seems a little weird to just send a free offer. People are so rude.

    I'm sorry you had to deal with that. :(

    "I will not steal her Snape badge.. I will not steal her Snape badge... I will not steal her Snape badge..." 

    haha!  I think the July siggy challenge has to be Harry Potter.      

     

    This... thinking the exact same thing... also random emails about ultrasounds? WTF?

     

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  • How random is that?!

    People kill me with their nonsense!  So sorry your "sanctuary" email box was infiltrated today ((big hugs))

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  • That is extremely random and insensitive to people's personal situations.  Sorry Btay, don't let it get you down too much. :(
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  • That is super sucky btay!!
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  • Wow.. that is random.. That is very insensitive, I would probably email back a smarta$$ remark too!

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    Oh B I'm sorry :( The only logic I can think of if she;s in school for that and needs outside patients (I had to do that with dental stuff).....but either way she should know better!
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