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Hey Guys:

I just got back from my first visit/ultrasound.  Right now it looks like 3 all at 6 weeks 1 day.  I am so nervous.  The RE did mention that we would need to start thinking about if we would consider selective reduction.  I just do not know what to think?.

 

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  • Karen1998Karen1998 member
    Congrats on all three measuring well!  Welcome to the board.  ((((Hugs)))) on having to make tough decisions.
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
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  • jertiejertie member
    Congratulations!  Best of luck with your decisions to come, I know that can't be an easy choice ((BIG HUGS)).

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  • rosenb2brosenb2b member
    Congrats!!!  Great news at the ultrasound.  Good luck on the hard decisions ahead of you!  H&H 9 months!
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  • Junebug060609Junebug060609 member
    Congrats on three good looking LOs!

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  • ade2beade2be

    OMG.  All 3 stuck!  Congrats!

    If you haven't already, you may want to introduce yourself on the multiples board.  There are lots of triplet moms over there that you could talk to about triplet pregnancy and such.  I'm so happy for you (and understand the overwelming feeling)!

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  • Mrs.AlbieMrs.Albie member
    Congratulations on three healthy LOs!  I wish you the best of luck with your decision about reduction.  I have no idea what I would do if I were in your place... 
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  • allybaby85allybaby85 member
    Congrats!!! ((Hugs)) for having to make such a hard decision. Know we are here to support you.
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  • fightingravityfightingravity member

    Holy moly! What great news, and also what a tough spot to be in. Whatever you choose, I wish you all the very best.

    (If it were me, I would do selective reduction to give the remaining bab(ies) the best shot. But I can only imagine how hard a choice this would be and by no means is there a right or wrong answer here).

    Good luck, and congratulations!

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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    I'm so happy to see you over here! Good luck with that decision.. it must be very difficult. 
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  • haziedazehaziedaze member
    Congrats and welcome! T&P about the hard decisions ahead, I hope you'll find peace with whatever you choose.
    BFP#1 9/14/10 (EDD 5/21/11); no fetal pole 6w6d, 7w4d, d&c 10/8
    BFP#2 3/16/11, beta 138; 4/12 Baby/HB DS born 9/10/11 at 29w4d due to partial abruption and PTL
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  • DowagerCountessofNJDowagerCountessofNJ
    Congratulations and welcome!
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  • pennynjonpennynjon
    Congrats times three!! I am so happy to see you here:)
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  • mandy6418mandy6418
    Congrats!! Welcome!
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  • alexa08alexa08
    Welcome and congrats! I hope everything continues to go well for you.
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    S, yeah!!! I am so happy that you are here!!! Huge congrats and FX that everything works out with your 3 little ones Smile
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  • shoefreak85shoefreak85
    Congrats!!  That's great that all 3 stuck!
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  • awesnapawesnap member
    Congrats x 3!! Wishing you hearty and sturdy babies whatever you decide. Good luck!
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    Congrats times three!!!
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  • KiKiMeKiKiMe member
    Congrats and welcome to the board! Good luck with your decision, I can imagine it is not an easy one.
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  • samm1983samm1983 member
    Congrats and welcome!  I'm sorry you have some tough decisions to make.
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    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
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  • hopefulelisehopefulelise
    wow, congrats! I can't help you with your decision, but good luck in whatever you decide to do.
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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    Welcome to the board!  I hope your stay here is a long and healthy one!  {{BIG HUGS}} to you on having to make such a difficult decision; we're here for you!
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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    Congrats and welcome! I wish you all the best no matter what you decide.
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  • MuffinhbMuffinhb member
    Congrats on the 3 healthy LO's! That is so exciting!

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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    Congrats on your 3 little miracles! Welcome to the board and best of luck to you in whatever you decide for the future

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    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

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  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis
    Welcome and congratulations on all three!  ((Big HUGS)) on the touch decisions.  I hope you find the strength to do the right thing for you and your family, whatever that is. 
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    BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
    BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12

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  • camdenfaithfulcamdenfaithful
    Congrats and welcome!!!!  Best of luck with everything especially the decisions that you and your DH might face down the line.  In the meantime, settle in and get comfortable for the next 9 months or so Smile
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  • Clerk9Clerk9 member

    Great to see you over here!  :)

    Congratulations & best wishes for the difficult decisions ahead.  We're here for support when you need it! 

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  • luvmyducksluvmyducks member
    Congrats and GL!! No matter what you have quite a journey ahead. We will be here!
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  • leneae10leneae10 member

    ::coming out of lurkdom::

    CONGRATS!!!!!  I'm praying for 3 healthy babies for you, sweetie!!!!!! 

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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    Congratulations! GL and thinking of you with your decision. Hugs.
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    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
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    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
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