We're going to use DD's crib, changing table, PNP, car seat, etc for LO#2. So, when would be best to start taking these items away so they can be used for the baby?
DD will be 20 months when the baby is due and I don't want her to throw fits when all of "her" things are being given to the baby.



Re: when to start taking away "baby" items from #1?
The only thing I am worried about was our thought of moving LO1 to a new room so that when LO2 is our of her bassinette, she could take over the nuersey. We've since changed that and are going to give LO2 the new room. I can't take, LO1's room from her since we've always called it her room.
LO1 just moved into a toddler bed a few weeks ago, so that's done before we need to move LO2.
I'd say just do it. The more attention you bring to it the more LO1 will focus on it. Reassure LO1 that wherever/whatever she is using is her's now and the baby needs the old stuff.
Our LO1 has mastered pointing at items and naming who they belong to. We do that with a lot of things in the house. GL