I'm getting pretty close to announcing at work that I'm expecting. Our team is virtual so it will be via a conference call we're all on. One of my teammates had a m/c in February and so I would like to be considerate of her feelings. I am thinking of calling her beforehand, but am not sure what to say?
She didn't tell everyone about her m/c (she hadn't announced pregnancy) but did tell me about it so I feel like that means we're close enough that I need to tell her I'm expecting myself and that I plan to announce on the call so she's prepared. We have another girl on the team who announced her pregnancy after this coworkers' miscarriage so I won't be the first but really want to be considerate of her feelings. Since I haven't been through a loss, I was just wondering what you all think is appropriate or what is the best way to tell her. I know she will be excited for me (and to be honest, I have suspicions she may be expecting herself again), but I certainly do not want to be the source of any pain for her.
TIA!
Re: How to tell coworker who had recent loss
BFP 4-19-11. Ezri Ana born on due date, Dec 30 2011!
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This exactly, that way she can have the reaction she needs to have.
I agree with you JoAnna914. I've been there too and I got blindsided by a group e-mail to the team.