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stressed out and annoyed

just need to vent - I really REALLY thought that Thursday was the day I would have O'd. By my chart and temps going up! Then it spikes down like it did, and now I am confused (first month charting) the more and more days that go by I am afraid I am not going to O. With PCOS O'ing is such a big accomplishment in itself and I am just waiting and waiting for a confirmation on this chart and waiting and waiting for the CH's. I don't know what's worse, waiting to see if I did by charting, or just wondering if I did without the charting! I thought charting would take away some of the anxiety, but it doesn't. I am still sitting here waiting and waiting. After how long do I just give up and say I am not going to O this month???

Sorry Ladies.

Re: stressed out and annoyed

  • OH NO!! I am sooo NOT giving up!!!! I stopped with the OPK's because as long as I have been doing them I have never gotten a +. I have been told that woman with pcos either never get a + or we can get a false possitive. So...instead of dealing with that stress I chart and temp!  I am just checking CM and temping! I just got so excited on Saturday, because i saw that my temp spiked so high so I thought this is it I o'd and then down it went lol... so according to my cm, hubby and I are still bding EOD.

     

    Thanks for the encouragement though!!! It helped! This is why I love this board so much!

    Thank YOU!

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  • I am sorry you are feeling so stressed. You said that this is your first month charting so you don't know what day you would normally O, but how long are your cycles normally?
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  • imageKristieM1985:
    I am sorry you are feeling so stressed. You said that this is your first month charting so you don't know what day you would normally O, but how long are your cycles normally?

     

    :( I have no idea!! I stopped Birth control in december and did not get my first period until March and that was cause my DR gave me provera. April I didn't get AF on my own again so DR gave me provera again with clomid and metformin. i wasn't charting then, I was just doing opk's and paying some attention to CM. In May AF came on its own! which i am taking as a possitive sign that maybe i did O in april! so may is really the first month that i am paying any sort of attention to cycle length, due to charting and all.

  • imageCoraGold1980:

    imageKristieM1985:
    I am sorry you are feeling so stressed. You said that this is your first month charting so you don't know what day you would normally O, but how long are your cycles normally?

     

    :( I have no idea!! I stopped Birth control in december and did not get my first period until March and that was cause my DR gave me provera. April I didn't get AF on my own again so DR gave me provera again with clomid and metformin. i wasn't charting then, I was just doing opk's and paying some attention to CM. In May AF came on its own! which i am taking as a possitive sign that maybe i did O in april! so may is really the first month that i am paying any sort of attention to cycle length, due to charting and all.

    well at least you did get your period on your own last cycle. Hopefully you are just a late O'er. good luck!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BabyFetus Ticker Nursing Bras at Nurtured Family
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