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WannaBeCrunchyMama
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Let me clarify a few things. Then I'll AW.
WannaBeCrunchyMama
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It's 1 am here and I am awake. DS usually wakes up about now but he has been sleeping more lately. Good thing right? Sigh, not when my body thinks I should be awake feeding him. So I thought I'd do a little posting around these here parts.
On to my confessions.
So first of all, I am NOT liferemarkable. I think she is my sister playing a joke. Pretty funny now that I'm not freaking out I might have a stalker. She knows way too many random personal things about me to be just about anyone else on the planet. That or my FI, but I don't think it's him because I would have noticed thebump on his computer. Sucks that they used that SN because I was thinking about changing my SN to liferemarkable (the name of our blog)
Allllso.
I'm not married.
I'm kind of embarrassed even though its no big deal. Basically the story is, I had some less-than-kind words spoken to me on a tri board for being a young unmarried, to-be mom who's FI was recently laid off. So I started calling FI, H. lame right?
Now on to the AW. The wedding is in August, and my dress pretty much rocks. (especially if I could lose a little weight off my arms.)
This isn't me.
*sobs* I hope you all still love me.
Oh wait, one more thing. As of today, I am a vegetarian. Yayme! Any tips, favorite recipes, would be appreciated.
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Re: Let me clarify a few things. Then I'll AW.
Did I miss something?
Gorgeous dress!
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Yeah, I feel as if I have missed a lot. I am cornfused.
But I love the dress!
1st: Dress is GORGEOUS! Now I want to have another wedding so I can wear my dress again!
2nd: I'm confused, too, but none of us care about your marital status. Just like none of us care about your sexual orientation, if you're a vegetarian/carnivore/omnivore, BF or formula feed, CD or disposable, own or rent, etc. I left the tri boards the minute I found this board because there is very little judgement and a whole lot of support. Even if some of us don't agree w/ other's choices, we mostly keep it to ourselves. The only time I've ever noticed any real drama is when the trolls come over here to start it.
Congrats on your impending wedding!
LOVE your dress!
and ditto everyone else. I think I have missed this liferemarkable dramz and need you to fill us in on every last detail so I have something to read for awhile
I obviously missed something too but kudos for speaking out about the FI > DH thing.
I actually know how you feel there. I eloped to Dh in 2009. We immediately found out we were pregnant. We had a big party and vow renewal last year. A lot of people didn't know we eloped even though we never hid it. It's kind of embarrassing to be "unwed" and pregnant. Add that to the fact that I look like I'm 14 and it's super embarrassing! I have actually been asked by strangers about my "little brother". lol.
I don't have any good veggie recipes on my mind right now. Sorry! But I might think of something today and post it later.
ETA: At first when I read your post I thought you meant liferemarkable like you weren't remarkable in life. I kept thinking "Don't say that! You're being too hard on yourself." It wasn't until I got to the end that I realized you were referring to a bumpie name. I was actually really relieved.
LifeRemarkable is a SN someone's been using who pretends to be me. I'm pretty sure it's my sister because I posted as LifeRemarkable once haha. So sister,mom, or fi... hmmm. At first I just thought "wow, this girl and I have a LOT in common." then I realized no one has that many quincikdences/commonalities. I was worried I might have some kind of stalker in the beginning. Then I posted as her once and it dawned on me someone in my family had to be playing a joke on me.
Thanks for not caring about my FI. I knew you guys wouldn't. Basically I just wanted to AW the dress but didn't want someone who specifically remembered me being married to be confused.
Haha, fi and I were this.close to eloping a few days before out BFP last year. I kind of wish we had. We would have lost my insurance though and had to pay for L's birth ourselves. Now we're spending just as much on a wedding and I think it's a ridiculous thing to spend money on. I'm still wondering if we should just elope but invites just went out.
Guess we're gunna party!
omfg.
Ok, so that is officially my FI being a jokester. He is the only one with access to my computer like this!
Now I need to plan a payback....
haha you nabbed the culprit! Pranks are fun, I hope you think of something good, cuz honestly I wouldn't have ever came up with posting as you like that lol
As far as veggie recipes.. try this clicky. I stumbled on this when I was looking for some good sides for our cookout the other week. Only tried few but they all looked delish... oh wow thats ironic lol
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This.
wtf.
Gotta say I'm now wary of this kcdc person, too. Twenty-seven posts and thinks the whole thing is hilarious? None of us have any idea about the situation and are scratching our heads, but kcdc, with 27 posts, knows the deal? I dunno. Maybe just newb thing...?
The whole thing doesn't make sense
at.all.
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Betting it's all the same person.
Right. There's another poster up there with 5 posts saying, "This is hilarious." Weiiiiiiiiiiird.
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I don't think you guys are aware, but the user "LifeRemarkable" has been posting a bunch of MUD / flame-worthy BS on the month / age boards and tri-boards for the last few months. It's ridiculous, really.. really annoying, and since our LOs are the same age, I've seen a lot of it. I know it is in fact NOT her [WBCM].
If it is her FI doing this, that really sucks.. and I think she's too nice a person.. because really, that poster [sis / FI, whoever] really takes light of things that are pretty serious subjects, and it makes me roll my eyes each time, that although that person is "having fun", there is some new mother on the other end of that internet connection, behind a screen, most likely with a 0-3 baby on her lap / boob [because that's when LM posted most] and is upset by some the stupid sh*t they post.. just for fun.. as if this sh*t isn't hard enough already.
WBCM - Although I don't really "know" you, I feel like I know you enough to know that you're a very sweet and sensitive person, so I can understand how you'd actually get your feelings hurt by being an un-wed mother, even though it kind of isn't the 1950s anymore, but whatever.. I know you've gone through some rough stuff, and it seems you're currently after a better grasp of knowing who you really are. You seem to have been doing some soul-searching in the last few months and I think you've also seemed more confident in that time, as well. I'm very happy for you and proud that you're less afraid of being flamed, but please continue to stand up for yourself and tell your FI / SIS whoever to knock it the f*ck off with that sh*t. If they have any idea of what you've been going through, let them know you're not the only one, and that the "other screen names" are other women just like you.
I could just be the worst bump investigator ever... but from what I saw in LifeRemarkable's post history it was all like serious posts. Granted, I didn't read every reply. But if a prankster was wanting to stir up drama why would they also take the time to post thoughtful responses and ask seemingly real questions?
What it looks like to me is that WBCM was posting under a couple of different names. Then today decided to point this out and stir up some boring MUD, but quickly got confuzzled.
I could just be a bored conspiracy theorist with a sleeping baby on my lap.
Sigh. Well it looks like this got all wacked up.
Basically I originally though LM and I had a lot in common. Then I realized we had weird in common. Then I posted as her. (meaning someone logged in as her on my computer). So then I realized it was either my SO or sister playing a joke.
SO still hasn't admitted to it so I don't know for sure. Basically I didn't want people seeing this persons posts and thinking it was me.
So I posted this thread about it.
Then I came back to reply and in the mean time SO or my sister logged in as LM. They must have seen this post. Really it was a pretty funny move because I posted as LM making it look like I'm both. But I'm not.
Really the only person it would have been funny to is me and whoever is behind it because it was weird how our lives mimicked each others. SO or sister were probably getting a laugh while I told them all about the girl on the bump who's the same age, has the same age kid, getting married the same month, and had the same fights with her FI.
It's now really funny anymore.
It looks like trying to clarify just made everything worse.
Quit while you're ahead.
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That's good if that's what they evolved to, but I started avoiding that poster because they were obviously someone just trying to get a reaction.. Used to be pretty f'in annoying and rude in the 0-3 days, is all I remember.
What happened today?
I'm totally confused.
Anybody remember when this exact scenario happened on another board maybe a year ago? Basically, a regular who had a notorious and disliked AE accidentally posted all casual in a post as the AE and then quickly tried to cover it up. Yeah, it went about the same as this except more interesting.
Nope - I miss all the good stuff!