Here is the website for SLS. I never got the book, just went off of this, it's pretty quick to read. GL with sleep training. It sucks the first few days but when you see her make progress it really helps. I know DH was beyond thrilled when we all were finally getting sleep and we only coslept for a few months, I was always in her room with her.
Re: Lucky_n_love
I totally agree! Sleep training stinks for everyone, but the end result is worth it. DD fell asleep a lot with me touching her, I figure each kids goes at their own pace, so oh well if I didn't follow the "rules" exactly, lol.