DH is currently in Iraq and is scheduled to have R&R sometime this next month. During the summer DH has visitation with his DS7 and bc he is deployed this summer's visitation will consist of the two weeks he will be on leave. DH and I have been together for over 4yrs and our one year wedding anniversary will fall under the R&R dates. Is it selfish for me to plan a getaway during those 2 weeks for just me and DH to celebrate our anniversary? The getaway that I have in mind has us leaving at noon on Saturday and returning by noon on Sunday. I want it to be a surprise but I am not sure if DH will think I am taking away from time with his son. Thoughts? Am I being selfish ?
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013