TTC After a Loss

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Hey all.

Well I miscarried three weeks ago yesterday.  I was 10 weeks. I'm a little over a week from the mark where the doc said we can ttc again. I'm so scared.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Being scared is normal, I think we all are.  I hope you can find some great support here.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.

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  • Sorry for your loss..And welcome.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. 

    I remember you from mc/pl.

    Welcome to the board.  Being scared is understandable.  I found calling and talking to the nurse about ttcal was very helpful.

     

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  It's such an unpredictable journey, being scared is just part of it.  I hope you have a short stay.


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    TTC #1 started 8.2010. 
    BFP #1 3.2.11Blighted ovum, missed m/c, 4.3.11-6.22.11 Provera

    BFP #2 Aug 2011 Clomid 50mg+Met missed m/c found 9w5d | cytotec 10.26.11 
    BFP #3 - CD36 - Jan. 2012 - 100mg Clomid + 2000met-  Baby Boy born 10.06.12 with 1 in a billion CHD. Perfect otherwise. 

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    TTC#2 - November 2012

    BFP #4:  O'd on CD25 (Aug. 2014).  DD May 6, 2015. RCS planned.
    Beta@14dpo: 184, 17dpo: 520.  44 hr. doubling time.  p4: 54U/S 8 weeks 1 day, 161 bpm
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

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    M/C 2/16/10 at 9wks 5 days~ D&C 2/18/10
    BFP#4 5/17/11 C/P.    
    BFP#5 11/30/12 Surprise! DS#3 born 7/29/13

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's totally normal to be scared, or have any other emotion. We're here for you.
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    BFP #1 EDD 9/10/11, natural miscarriage at 6w
    BFP #2 Medicated cycle, twin boys born 4/4/12 at 29w4d
    BFP #3 EDD 8/8/14, D&C for missed miscarriage at 8w, baby boy with triploidy
    BFP #4 June 2014 CP
  • Welcome to the board!  I'm not TTC yet, but I already have some fear and anxiety about it.  This is a great place for support and advice. 
  • welcome to the board, i am so sorry for your loss!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  My dr told us last week that we can start trying again.  I'm scared too.  But for the most part, I make a conscious decision to think positive thoughts.  It is really hard though.

    BFP#1 EDD 11/8/11 - MC @ 9w6d, 4/15/11 we said goodbye
    BFP#2 DD arrived 5/7/12
  • Welcome to the board.  I'm sorry for your loss.  Trying again is definitely one of the scariest things.  I hope you find some comfort here.
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    BFP #2: 12/30/11. EDD 09/11/12. MC 01/04/12. I love you always.


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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.

     

    5/16/2005: M/C at 7 wks
    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

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  • I'm sorry for you loss, I hope your stay on this board is short and sweet.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  I too lost our LO at 10 weeks.  Welcome to the board.  I hope you find a lot of support here.  I know it's scary at first, but it really helped me to know that there were so many wonderful women going though, or who have gone through, something similar and are here to support each other. 

    (((Hugs)))

    TTC since March 2010, BFP #1 11.09.10, ectopic, m/c 12.14.10 (10w)
    Clomid + TI=BFN, IUIs 1-6= BFN
    Application for domestic adoption submitted 4/18/12, matched 8/12/12, DD born 10/31/12


     

  • I am so sorry for you loss. Welcome to the board.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome and feeling scared is totally normal :)
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome!
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    Welcome. I'm sorry for your loss. This is a great board to be on. The ladies here are great!
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.

    It is scary to start TTC which is one of the many reasons this board is so wonderful! Welcome, I hope your stay is short and sweet. 


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    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

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  • Welcome to the board.  I am so very sorry for your loss.  The women here are wonderful & are so very supportive & hilarious.  i hope you find the comfort & support here that we all have.  This is such a scary thing to go through, just know that you are not alone in it.  We are her for you & with you.  (((HUGS)))
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    BFP #2 12/31/2010 (EDD 9/1/11) -- Natrual m/c 1/9/10
    BFP #3 12/20/2011 - EDD 8/25/12
    u/s 1/6/12 - HB & beautiful bean
    A/S 4/2 - It's a Girl!!!
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  • Welcome to the board.  I think we all totally understand that scared feeling.  This next week will hopefully fly by and I hope your stay here is short!
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    I'm so sorry for you loss. I hope you find the comfort and support you need here. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I hope your stay here is short and sweet.
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    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you find some comfort and support here.
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  • I am very sorry for your loss.  Welcome and I hope the fear fades a bit and you find some strength in the ladies here.  It's certainly not easy, but it's a bit easier knowing you aren't alone.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Feeling scared is completely normal.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss...I hope you are able to find comfort and support in this board.
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    I'm sorry for you loss.  It is scary, but I believe it will be worth it at the finish line.
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  • DCWJesDCWJes member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I hope your stay is nice and short.
    I have short term memory loss. Do not take it personally if I do not remember you right away.
    No longer trying to conceive at all.
    BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
    BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
     BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
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