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What a mind fvck...
nebrtwin
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*Warning, abortion mentioned*
A friend of mine has had terrible luck with his short lived marriage. He was in the process of filling for a divorce when she announced she was pregnant, and according to him, in the state of Texas you cannot get a divorce if the wife is pregnant.
Long story short, she moved back to Nebraska, while he is stationed at Ft. Hood. He has come back to Nebraska on leave before he gets sent to Afghanistan, and while here he was trying to do as much for her financially to help her with the baby as he possibly can, including moving his partially ex wife in with his brother. They have gone shopping for baby items, and even a book for her to keep record as she progresses while he is away. He just found out from a friend of hers that she got an abortion 6 weeks ago and is living a lie to get money from him.
All of us (his friends) tried to warn him and open his eyes about her manipulative ways but he wanted to see the good in her. I seriously hope she gets mental help. My heart breaks for him, I know what it's like to feel loss, but I never experienced it in that way.
I don't know if I should have even posted this on TTGP, but I am trying to connect the dots in my head. I sit here in complete shock.
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Re: What a mind fvck...
o.m.g. That is all.
PS: One of my best friends just relocated to Wahoo.. and I don't live too far from here!
WOW. what a crazy b*tch! I feel sorry for your friend.
I will never understand how some people can be so evil. I am not religious, but I do believe that awful people like this will get what's coming to them.
EDIT: Forgot an entire word. Doh!
Wow, small world! I just relocated to Wahoo about 2.5 years ago so I am still learning the small town ways.
::jaw desk::
It's one thing to feel a loss, but on top of that to find out that it went on without his knowledge and then she continued to lie to him and take advantage of him?
She makes me want to puke.
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You are so right that the crazies come out when people are away. I am thankful though that this happened before he left because it would be so disheartening to come back on RR and not seeing your child for the first time as you had imagined, and because she could have really cleaned him out. I know those guys get paid pretty well while they are deployed and it would have been terrible for her to take half, if not more of his very hard earned money.
He seems to be somewhat in shock at this point, and very very angry. I hope with enough support from his friends and family we can help him heal before he leaves.
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OMG! That is awful! I really don't understand what goes through the minds of people like her. I couldn't even fathom doing something so horrible and manipulative and deceitful.
A former CW of mine was married when he was quite young to an older woman. He is very sweet and still very naive and during the time they were married she told him she was pregnant. He was so excited to become a dad and was the most supportive husband through her growing pregnancy. She got a baby belly and bought maternity clothes and everyone knew they were going to become parents. Very late in the pregnancy she miscarried. Or so she told him. It turns out she was never pregnant to begin with. She was just *** with him in some crazy fashion. She put on a bunch of weight right in her belly region (I have NO idea how but I do know the mind can play tricks on the body). She was seriously mentally ill and I felt SO bad for my CW. He ended up divorcing her because he couldn't deal with that level of deceit. So he was devastated not only by "losing" the baby, but by learning that he was never going to be a daddy in the first place. My jaw was on the floor the whole time he was telling me this.
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This! I am so sorry your friend has to go through this.
*Holds head in hands*....
How can a person be so horrible? I just don't get it. That woman makes me want to puke...what a disgusting person. Thoughts and prayers for your friend...he sounds like he can use all the extra prayers and love right now.
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