First Post - M/C on Saturday

kbhaynes · May 2011

Here is my story. I haven't lurked on this board at all, so I'm not sure if this is appropriate, but I feel like I need to share. I hope you all understand. I'm just so hurt and upset right now after the loss of my first pregnancy. I don't really know where else to turn.

I woke up with some minor cramping saturday morning that did not let up at all throughout the day. I had some brown spotting that morning, but didn't think anything of it since I've had so much spotting throughout the whole pregnancy and it has been ok every time I had it checked... we were about to walk out the door to go to a wedding and I felt a small gush of fluid. I went to the restroom and had clear fluid with a tinge of red to it. We rushed to the emergency room - passed more fluid in the waiting room. Once I was admitted to a room the bleeding started. I passed a lot of the tissue when they did the vaginal ultrasound and said that the sac was empty. It was a very hard day... Sunday morning was worse when I passed the rest of the tissue (luckily I didn't have to have and D & C). I never thought I could be in so much pain, physically or emotionally. This was my first pregnancy. Dr. said everything has passed and I have to go back to make sure my levels are back to normal (in about 2 weeks). Once they go back, we can start trying again in August. I hope it doesn't take as long this time around - I just want a healthy pregnancy and baby.

God has a plan for me, and I know I will meet my baby in Heaven one day, but that still doesn't stop the pain.

Thank you for letting me share. I am hoping to talk further with you all. I have always found comfort from the nestie/bump boards.

Geeps · May 2011

I am soooooo very sorry for your loss. You have come to the right place. There are a bunch of wonderful, supportive women here. We all understand because we too have been in your shoes.

I too lost my first pregnancy and it was devestating. I am thinking of you and hope you find some comfort here.

EM0704 · May 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss. My first mc was much like yours. I too am looking forward to seeing my babies in Heaven! I hope you feel better soon! You're in the right place!

caren5980 · May 2011

I am so sorry! i lost my first M/C too! I hope you find some comfort and support here.

heathie2010 · May 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss. Many of us have been through it and will be here for you to lean on when it's too hard to bare. It helps us, too, to listen and try to help.

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