Pregnant after a Loss

I lurk over here

Im not going to post much but I just wanted to let you all know I am lurking.  I lost my Twins in the second tri and it scares me to both try again and to be pregnant.  Reading some of your stories, questions, and replies to others help make me feel better and realize I can do this. 

So, I am here.. watching in a not too creepy way.

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  • HadleySHadleyS member
    Oh, my, I am so very sorry for the loss of your twins.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  You might really like the Trying to Conceive After a Loss board in addition to this one.  I went there after my loss and it was a tremendous source of love and support during those especially raw and difficult times.
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  • I'm sorry for the loss of your twins. If you saw few posts down I was talking about late loss and milestones. I lost mine in the second trimester also.

    I see the Red Sox logo in your siggy are you in the NE area?

  • Thank you very much, Ive been over there and I post.  I like to just pop in here to see that it is possible to emotionally move on and to still grieve but be happy.  I love the girls there, but they are in the same situation as I am.  Im looking ahead, Im a planner.
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  • I am in RI, I love me some Red Sox.
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  • imageDesiraeSunshine:
    I am in RI, I love me some Red Sox.

    I'm in NH. If you ever want to chat feel free to PM me.

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    imageDesiraeSunshine:
    I am in RI, I love me some Red Sox.

    Yaaaay!  I'm in Boston just a short walk away from the stadium.  The Bo Sox have been doing great lately, haven't they!?

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    BFP 03/03/11, EDD 11/09/11, We love you so much already, our sweet little munchkin!!!
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    *Congrats to buddies MrsAtch, cflocco, MommyandKate, luckylady55, opallover, trishiepoo, stephsteph77, and Pachita! Praying for healthy babies for all of you!*
    *Congrats to my buddy, Izabella22 (BFP 5/11/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
    *Congrats to my buddy, myaddiwaddi06(BFP 10/31/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
  • I'm sorry for the loss of your twins.  I think it's pretty common to lurk over here while TTC again; I know I did.  The stories here always gave me hope, so I hope they give you hope too.  I also hope that you're able to join us soon!
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
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    imageDesiraeSunshine:
    I am in RI, I love me some Red Sox.

    I'm in NH. If you ever want to chat feel free to PM me.

    Thank you, I appreciate it.

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  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your babies.  ((hugs))  Lurk as long as you need to.  I also suggest the mc/pg loss and/or TTCAL boards.  They were my safe havens for quite some time.  
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  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your twins.  Your fears are totally normal.  Hope we see you posting on this board soon!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  I'm glad that you have been finding support on the TTCAL board and hope here.  Please continue to lurk.  ((Big HUGS))
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  • I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your twins.

    Definitely lurk all you want over here.  A lot of us did when we were TTCAL ourselves.  I know it helped remind me that its possible to get pregnant again and go on to have a happy outcome.  Heck, hearing the birthstories here as they come along still helps me have hope that this pregnancy will turn out differently.  You can totally do this and we'll be here for you when you do!

    Go Sox!  (Transplanted New Englander over hereWink)

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